hot irish boy,

err it's just coffee dude, maybe she just likes meeting new people?

 

1. i think mary's onto something.
2. i don't think it's like a REAL date. He seems like a cool guy, yes i'm spoken for, but I have no intention of ruining that. Is it unreasonable to think I could be friends with the irish boy?

 

could be; i can't really identify with that myself, so i don't really know much about such a situation.

seems weird that if she's just trying to be friends, the first thing she pointed out was how hot he is.

 

Maybe she is, but dont let her make you feel bad if you dont think you should.

It's not a real date, im sure his intentions are romantic, but coffee in this situation is to get to know some one, maybe for sex or maybe for a real date. which is why there is nothing wrong with going so long as you let him know where he stands by the end of the meeting.

And no bunnysuit, it is not unreasonable to think you could be friends with this 'boy' it happens all the time.

 

Well because you havent been in that situation let me explain this to you

You can be in a committed relationship, and still find other people attractive, believe it or not!

 

Maybe she's a snob and only hangs out with hot people....

 

amazing! you learn something every day..

 

grow up dude

honestly

why attack me for my beliefs? im not preaching to her, her and i have a somewhat personal relationship and know a lot about each other when it comes to this type of thing...

she asked a question and i told her what i thought

maybe you dont believe in karma, or science (action reaction)

and thats fine

it doesnt make it any less real

I never said I was honest all the time, I have lied many times

and i have dealt with the consequence of those actions many times

telling someone that honesty is variable just makes you look silly and foolish

i am curious about one thing though?

does you calling me full of hippy preacher bullshit make you the pot or the kettle?!

id like to be the pot

for obvious reasons :sifone:

p.s careful on rolling your eyes so much, they might get stuck like that hahahahahhaha

 

this is true.

 

haha! well in that case i see nothing wrong here.

 

Because if you just want to be friends with him, you tell him something like I would love to hang out with you, but I should tell you I have a boyfriend to avoid any confusion.

 

i think this is the best idea so far. i shall do this. and now i will go to school.

 

Ok, but your responses to me sounded an awful lot like preaching, i dont really care though, my feelings arent hurt

she asked a question and i told her what i thought

It's comments like that, that make me feel glad i said you are full of hippie preacher bullshit, It's shaky ground to say anything you said about karma is based on science, although im sure you're just gonna go on about "(action reaction)" whatever, if it makes you feel smart, do it.
and thats fine

If what you say is a lie is what you're talking about, it just sounds like bad luck to me. Want to be more specific, or am i just suppose to be impressed you've had life experiance?

I don't believe the truth is carved in stone and i think you're foolish for thinking karma is an exact science. And to be honest i cant believe we are having this discussion over the situation this thread is based on, it's not like we're discussing swindling the economy.

Because you're too stoned to remember that the pot is the hypocrite in that little saying?

Well im glad you find that funny.

 

sarcasm does not equal irony.

I thought you were Canadian, not american.

 

When I was 17, dating my husband, there was a guy that I met who I had had a slight crush on for years beforehand, and one day, out of the blue, he told me that he thought I was really cute and could he call me?

I was with a few of my friends, I was pissed off that night at my boyfriend, so I felt daring, gave him my phone number. My friends couldn't believe it, they were shocked, because they knew how head over heels in love I was. Their shock registered and I felt horrible, crossing my fingers that he wouldn't call.

I guess at the moment it was out of frustration. I wasn't exactly happy with how my relationship was going at the time, wasn't sure what was going to happen, I felt like I wasn't getting the attention I deserved. And here this other guy was paying me attention, and I felt like my own boyfriend wasn't.

So he (the guy whom I gave my number to) called me a few days later and asked me out to dinner. I couldn't do it. I told him point blank that I had to be honest with him, that I had a boyfriend I was really in love with, and the night I had given him my phone number I had been upset and I shouldn't have given my number out.

He was cool with it, and thanked me for being honest. Wished me luck with my boyfriend. He was a really nice guy.

I had a lot of guilt over it, and nothing even happened. But...I guess what I'm trying to say is, if you love your boyfriend, don't go out with this other guy, you don't want to send him the wrong message, and you don't want to hurt your boyfriend in the process. Because if you're anything like me, painfully honest, you won't be able to keep it in, and you'll end up feeling like crap over it.

Without trust/honesty in a relationship, well, it's not much of a relationship, is it? Think about how you would feel if your boyfriend did something similar. Wouldn't feel too good I'm sure.

But Aura did have some good advice. If you want to be friends with this guy, then simply tell him upfront about your boyfriend and how you feel about him, then you can see whether or not he's cool with that, or if he's looking for something more.

 

i dont recall ever stating that karma was based on science, I did make a comparison though, nor did i ever say karma was an exact science

and what do you think your answers sound like?!??? word of god?!

i think you like to beat off to misconstruing people's words and pretending to not be as judgmental as you accuse other people of being....

its' all good

we all have those crazy little quirks

im not really a hippy though

if i had to label myself id probably be a cowgirl

but i dont have the need for that so, im just me:cheers2:

love it or hate it....

i shall still rest peacefully at night

love you bitch!!

 

I feel the same about you.

Then sleep well cowgirl preacher, but remember, anything and everything is gonna come back and get ya!

 

what i put into this world will surely manifest in my life, whether it be positive or negative, honest or deceitful...

it does indeed always come back

i have no fear

 

WOW, an actual quality female :hurray:

Same with Aura and HippyChickMommy. Maybe there is hope..

:cheers2:

 

I think you misunderstand me.