How did your fwb become a fwb?

In Chicago....

 

At first it bothered me because naturally I would self reflect and try to analyze if it was something I said or something I did that made her disappear. As she would reappear...we would talk about how our lives were going and if anything had changed and from what I was told...her sudden withdrawal(s) were always do to some develop in her life. Just her contacting me again was reason enough for me to believe that it wasn't me.

She may contact me again or maybe she won't...but I'm not going anywhere and she knows that.

 

Yeah, it's always something to do with everyday life and sorry I haven't been myself lately with a lot going on in my life....etc...etc...
So and for when she does come around for coitus, do you think her husband is aware of such extra-marital activity?

 

Funny that you should you ask...she married one of her past clients, interestingly enough.

It's the same song and dance that many couples sing when there is no trust between them and there are children involved. I believe I can speculate pretty accurately when I say that he married her out of a need to rescue her from a life that turned out to be quite toxic...and he himself having been involved in the same lifestyle, knows that she's capable of getting involved with other men if it fancies her...depending on whether or not she feels a need to do so.

He has never trusted her...and she hates him for that. So yes, he's suspicious of her when her daily routine changes from his ever present watching eyes. She reaches out to me when she feels it's safe to do so...and withdraws when it isn't. It's turns into a game of cat and mouse like any other situation where you have two lovers having an affair I guess.

The span in time between encounters requires patience...and when those times present themselves, the sex is sensual, passionate and exhilarating. Having to carefully plan when and where to meet so we can play without raising an eyebrow...makes it exciting!

 

That's the number one reason people have affairs, fuck buddies, or friends with benefits. It's sensual, passionate and exhilarating, but above all, it's exciting.

 

I might look for a FWB by placing an ad offering health insurance as a benefit?

Sex and health ins. what could be better?

 

At this point in my life, FWB is the only relationship I would consider being in.

 

Knew them in HS. Not sexually. Met back up like 20 years later and it went from there.

 

That pussy had to have gotten some experience by that time!

 

my bf introduced me to him at a friend's event, after a few drinks we hit it off and turned out he was great in bed, so it became a casual fwb thing.

 

This was a long time ago. I met mine at work. I was in my first marriage which was in its death throes. She was married but had recently discovered her husband was a secret transvestite and had moved into the spare room.

We shared sob stories and part of that was lack of sex. We exchanged a knowing look and both smiled. The first time we did it was amazing. We were both starving for sex.

And yes, we did have sex at work. In my office, her office and elsewhere.

It ended when I met my current wife.

 

Our neighbor started hanging around more and more. He got off work early and would come by just to hang out. We became closer and closer, finally one day he just grabbed me and kissed me and I melted in his arms! From then on we fucked every chance we get! ❤

 

Does hubby approve and for possibly wanting to watch?

 

One was someone I worked with and we'd become friends .She and a girlfriend were out celebrating her birthday one night and stopped by the apartment I shared with a guy I also worked with . I was in the shower and wasn't aware they were there and walked out of the shower in my underwear .I excused myself and dressed before returningt to the party .

She asked to see my room and next thing I knew we were both naked . It lasted for 15 years or so .

 

Totally agree. It's the thrill of it being wrong and that is exciting. It happens so much more than people realise.

 

Yes hubby had wanted to share me, so I helped it to happen! ❤

 

Very convenient for the both of you then.

 

I fucked her……

 

She was a collage friend, I was helping her with some of her studies, she mentioned a few times about her breakup from her bf, that she didn’t have the time or the energy for another.

As the conversations continued it became obvious what she was looking for. She would come to my apartment or I would go to her, no kissing, no romance, just fuck and go home.

 

Can't beat that if you're not looking for a relationship, but not many women are built that way though. Well I did know one I think, but she reserved herself to a friend's bed and not to mine, sadly enough.