How did your fwb become a fwb?

LOL. I completely understand!

 

My fist FWB was a fellow from work. Dave and I became friends at work that led to invitations of my wife and I being invited over for dinner and drinks. Well my wife and his became good friends and our families hung out together quite a lot. My wife and I had two young sons and after the second one was born our sex life dropped off. Dave it turned out was in the same way with his wife after their second child was born. One day at work he was saying his wife never sucked him off anymore. Well I’m bi but had been faithful to my wife throughout our marriage until that day. i said to Dave that I could help him out with that as I had sucked a lot of cocks throughout high school and college and really enjoyed it. I told him I hadn’t sucked a cock since I got married but I would suck him off. We met in the parking lot after work, he got in my truck and I sucked his cock. He was never interested in sucking mine but over the next 12 years I sucked him off 3 or 4 times a month. I enjoyed sucking his cock as much as he enjoyed getting sucked. we both got what we wanted.

 

I’ve had a few female fwb over the years. Well started off as fwb. All ended up with them wanting a relationship that I didn’t. I also had a male fwb for about 6 years. It was technically a fwb situation. We were in a relationship for probably 2-3 years of that but wasn’t official

 

I've said it here before that I think a lot of FWB's started as friends and it grew from there. My most recent and new FWB is someone I've known for 5 or more years and we just now took the next step. She was in and out of a difficult relationship and we frequently talked about her then boyfriend. Those kinds of discussions are fairly intimate and a few months after she moved out she wanted to get together for drinks. That's when I just asked if she'd ever be up for more and she said that since she knew the kinds of things I liked, she would be up for it. When we finally got the chance, it was like we'd been hooking up for years. She doesn't look at the BENEFITS so much as she does the FRIENDS. She kind of believes that friends help each other out like that. She clearly does NOT want only one friend like that though so a man who won't judge her is a key. In any event, it was aquaintance, friend, close friend, intimate and mutual benefits.

 

I'm still looking! Anyone

 

That’s what it is for us. (Friends helping friends). There is absolutely nothing wrong with that. More people need to do this. Kudos to your wife. We do this for and old friend who’s wife past away. He’s lonely and has some ED problems. My wife is helping him with basic human needs. It’s a work in progress. I could go on and on about sexually helping friends in need.

 

My FWB and I met through a Craig's List ad 11 years ago. We were both in sexless marriages and were searching for mutual oral sex. He and I have been sucking each other off weekly since we met.