How do you deal or handle Rude or Disrespectful people?

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  1. Vladimir Illich

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    Tell 'em to SOD OFF !!!
     
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  2. Tyrsonswood

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    That's rude...
     
  3. Vladimir Illich

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    AND ???


    If They're rude to me, I will give like for like back in return !!!
     
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  4. Cello Song

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    If you hold your thumb and pointer finger in a C-shape, you can squish their heads. It helps to close one eye when executing the squish. Very few people are able to successfully execute the counter maneuver in time. I like to rub in the victory by chanting "I'm squishing your head! I'm squishing your head!"
     
  5. i lower my voice, never, ever swear and ask them why?
    Apparently, though god knows why, I can be very scarey :innocent::innocent::innocent::innocent:
     
  6. Vladimir Illich

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    So can I when I tell them in a loud voice - SOD OFF !!!
     
  7. Tyrsonswood

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    You could ask them to "Respectfully Sod Off!"...
     
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  8. themnax

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    or simply walk a mile to avoid them entirely. not that they deserve your effort of course, but occasionally one or two might get the message.
     
  9. Vladimir Illich

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    I'm in no physical condition to be able to walk a mile !!!
     
  10. themnax

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    we are the aliens.

    how will the rest of the universe deal with rude and disrespectful human species from planet earth?

    being considerate is morality, and does not depend upon liking or disliking, only upon being honorable ourselves.
    will we come to understand our own advantage, to not require others to take extreme measures, to protect their own safety, from us?
    being considerate is morality because, it is only the lack of doing so, the makes our world unpleasant to each other.

    this is the very most basic, most central point. of everything we do. it is central to what defines criminal activity. it is central to how we treat environment and our dependence on it,
    and of course, again to whatever relationships we develop socially as a species with worlds in other solar systems should that come to pass.

    everything to do, even with earning our own respect of ourselves as a person, so both inward and then outward.

    really everything else, even belief and beyond, not because of what anyone says to believe about it, because this is the mechanical even, absolute.
    it is the only reason that we have and need and depend upon hierarchy of any sort, is that some people choose deliberately to be inconsiderate.

    for the individual, food and shelter of course, but as soon as we stop eating and look accross the table or accross our yards and streets.

    if more people took all things into consideration and acted based upon doing so, not just for themselves, but for all things, then all of this need,
    to regulate, to calm behavior by levels of organization, would all be not needed and go away, other then, if we want infrastructure, then we would still need organization for that,
    but only for that. you only need a law if people don't have sense on their own, i mean the sense is there, but choose not to follow it.

    beliefs and ideologies tell us we can't do this without them, but this is deception to make us all dependent on them.

    possibly there is a true root of beliefs that is this also.

    people who think they're doing the world a favor, to harass each other for not sharing this perspective, of denying the reality of the diversity of possibility,
    this is the only evil in this world or any world, for people to choose to do this.

    i do not know if more words or fewer can express this really ultimately central concept more clearly.

    i do believe many who created organized beliefs were struggling to find some way to express this clearly so it won't get twisted,
    the way every belief over time gets twisted backwards into the exact opposite of this very intent.

    but i do absolutely belief, that at least some other worlds, who's inhabitants may seem odd or even 'anamalistic', whatever prejudice may be conveyed by that,
    have been far more successful in doing so then our own has as yet. and i do not believe we have any sort of biological imparative preventing us from achieving the same,
    only the inhabition against doing so that comes from convincing ourselves we have one.
     
  11. Riza3000

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    I kind of just move on and try to distant myself from said person/people. I've tried the whole "talk back" thing, it never worked out well for me -- or just came out the wrong way. So, the best thing I do in that situation is just walk away. Avoid/ignore them and go on with my life. Key word here is "try"

    Do I still get annoyed and/or irritated in these situations, yes. I am only human
     

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