Personally, the times I watched porn with a girlfriend (I think it was 2 or 3 occasions) I felt like either: a) being with the girl in the porn movie and turned off by my actual gf; b) disgusted that my gf would try to satisfy me in the way a porn star would. You see, commitment and porn (er, commitment and good sex...) do not go together for me. And that meant, commitment had to go. :sunny:
It's great when you both love what's going on. If one isn't turned on by something, for example I'm not a big fan of lesbian porn but my bf is, we don't watch that together and I like dp but he doesn't so we don't watch that together either
It really does depend on the other person's views on pornography. My boyfriend and I have always been very open with each other about watching porn and the first time we did it together it was fantastic. It's not an every time thing for us but it can definitely heighten the experience if we're in that kind of mood. We tend to like the same kind of porn as well so thumbs up all around.
He likes girls and I like men. Even when we find a compromise I usually end up in fits of giggles and he feels awkward. We didn't try very much though, hopefully we'll find a compromise that works without cracking me up, soon.
We love to watch porn. I've always been turned on by it, although I could do without all the loud fake screaming and moaning. When I was younger I was fascinated by all the different variations available and then all of the different positions and sex acts they performed. I knew I had to try some of that! I learned some new tricks along the way too! Nowadays it's entertainment/foreplay material and we pretty much watch all kinds. Lesbian is a big turn on for me if I'm in the mood for it, although I'm (mostly ) straight. Reality is a good one too! We just take turns deciding who gets to pick. And sometimes, I STILL learn something cool! I think there are many many more people out there that watch porn, either by themselves or with their significant other, that pretend they don't due to a perceived social stigma or strict religious upbringing, etc. I've always been of the mindset that sex is a natural part of life, so let's have fun with it because IT is fun! Bring on the porn (and toys of course)!
I've watched porn with 15 people and we just made jokes and laughed as we passed the joint around. Other times i was with two other people and it was awkward as hell. Depends on the people. Porn is always good though... :hat:
I watch porn sometimes with my husband but not with my boyfriend. Way too much porn is just sexual calisthenics and gymnastics - and pulling out at the moment of completion. Very artificial! I think I'd like porn with flirting and kissing and making out with feelings and stuff, but that wouldn't be porn, would it?
no not a problem watching porn with my partner, we dont do it all the time. but its something different, so why not. watching it gets us turned on then we start touching eachother and leads on from there ..xox