How do you guys know?

Personally, I feel attractions towards both men and women. I choose not to follow them most of the time though because I am interested in their mind and spirit; their personality. Of course I questioned it, but I can't deny my natural urges; I don't care about it either. I'd rather fall in love with a boy with a complex and interesting personality than have sex with a girl because she's hot...

 

What defense mechanism is saying is starting to make more & more sence. Also the last entry about "opening up your hormones" to the same gender. I blocked that out for so long & when I finally accepted it was like opening a floodgate. Even though this isn't my thread, you all have really helped me out so thanks!