That's why I am a very mischievous mamacita. It's much funner that way And I agree RessotapiksMan(lordy that is long) the West does seem to be oblivious to anything in way of energy.....or let's say mainstream society is. Not everyone.
I know a girl who speaks of energy all the time. We always crack up together when she does it forgetfully. I am a pragmatist. But I do believe in intuition and body language signals.
I'm really into building my energy( "life force") by Taoist ( martial/sexual) arts etc.But it makes it sooo much harder to channel/balance energy The CHinese would say this risks attracting dark energies ( or "demons" as they say) Star Wars makes some clever , if simplified points on " the force" Don't recall it mentioning kissing tho...: )