How do you reciprocate after you've cum?

This something I do worry about. After I cum, I do lose the mood but I still feel guilty that I'm not at all ready to reciprocate. The friend I have been playing with for years actually cums just feeling me cum in his mouth. It's his thing so when we're done, we're both done usually but there have been times when he didn't and either jerks himself off or my guilt is enough encouragement for me to jerk him off but not blow him. It has gone both ways for us. Either he sucks me off and then ends up taking care of himself, or I suck him off and then I end up taking care of myself.

At the moment, I'm concerned about it because I am about to meet someone new to play with for the first time and I want to make a good impression. At my age (56), sometimes it can take a while to get that mood back. I really enjoy a good 69 but I find it very difficult to cum while doing that as I'm focused on his dick and less on mine. Apparently my brain can't handle that many things going on at once but it's at least kind enough to let me remain hard. This new meetup seems like something I would like to continue beyond just the first meeting and this has very much been on my mind. I get hard just talking to him about it and I feel like I could suck and fuck for days, but I know reality will set in and that is a big concern for me.

 

Pleasure the other anyway they desire. My MBFF taught me to masturbate, make him cum, suck cock, and he always made me cum first. I'd stay naked and make him cum including sucking his cock, making him cum, and swallowing.

 

I was with a guy Monday he fucked me and I came first, hands free by the way very intense orgasm. He wasn’t done so I let him keep fucking me and in different positions and all it did was make more horny I sucked him cause he said he couldn’t cum, at that point I was so aroused I climbed on top of him and rode him, he still didn’t cum but wanted to stop. So I guess it doesn’t matter if I cum I still want more sex

 

Normally I cum last or not at all. Early on I would loose desire after I cum but now day I stay horny and happy to reciprocate any in way.

 

I always return the favor in any way asked. I love oral so am happy to eat or suck what ever to make sure they have a happy ending.