Five or six years ago my current partner and I counted up previous partners. She had 16, all in relationships. I had 15, 12 in relationships. A few month ago I wrote out a list and could name only 14. How could that be? I was so profoundly grateful for the touching of any female flesh. How could I have forgotten one? Whoever it was, thank you, thank you, thank you.
Best guess; Before marriage(age 15-27) 22 During 30 year marriage (swaps) 9 After my wife past to present day 19 Total 50
At 62 now, I've only had sex with 3 women, despite asking out dozens of girls and women, and only going on 30 dates in total, mostly first dates--all were rejections. So I've just had sex 25 times with girlfriend #1 (with me aged 27-32, and whom I lost my virginity with), a female prostitute once, and then lots of sex with girlfriend #2 (54-57). Both girlfriends broke up with me lots of times during our relationships. Every rejection by a woman drove me out to have lots of gay sex, anonymous oral sex with hundreds of guys, and in the last 10 years, both before and after girlfriend #2, more personal, intimate sex with 15 guys in each other's homes, some oral only, some also anal. I hope to have lots, super lots, of anal sex (with oral) with men exclusively in the future, preferably with one or more close friends with benefits or a boyfriend/husband--I'm still looking for either. Clearly I'm not made for women.
15 total, depending on Bill Clinton‘s definition of what sex is 9 women full on sex. Some were LTRs or FWBs, with a couple one nighters thrown in. 4 women oral only due to the situation or circumstances. it was mostly about them. 2 men. Only oral. One was my HS/college SB for two years. The other was a brief, weak moment with an acquaintance. Wanted more, but it never worked out. married this time for almost 3 decades…. yeah we am older. no sex for the last five years. Not my choice, but it takes two to tango.
I've literally been having Bisexual sex for 58-60 years; I have no idea how many lovers and playmates I've had sex with. I didn't tally a score.
My wife and I were swingers for years, and she was a hot wife, so we had a lot of sex with a lot of people.
Always referred to my diaries which I keep locked away and I counted 136 on three occasions I had four in one day I was 14 and when I first had sex
With my ex-wife, we were not swingers, but she was a hot wife. That was a lot of fun! my current wife of almost 3 decades,…. we thought about swapping, but she did not think that she could handle me with another wife/woman. So we had a handful of MFMs With the same close friend. Those were a lot of fun.
Another post for which the 'like' button isn't enough If men can have sex with whomever, so can women. Imv the double standard us a form of misogyny.
