When I first joined this site the year before last my total was about 10 including other girls, but beginning early last year that number started going up a lot. So now my total is 43, 6 girls and 37 guys.
That is impressive.I had a girlfriend once who had over 100 partners (estimated). She lost count after her freshman year in college. And she was a virgin when she started college.
The number changes quite dramatically but I would estimate at least 150 and probably closer to 200. My fwb probably around 100 Amy fb closer to 200. My wife probably 50