How old is too older to be?

Women have the same issues as men on this issue.
I do know what you mean though...but a lot of that is media driven.
In the real world most people should see you first then where you live second or third, perhaps not at all.
If a woman is bothered you live at home still...is she really worth your time?

 

Is she worth my time? yes if she has good qualities then why would i have a qualm about her not liking one of my bad qualities?

I guess the type of women i have dated may lead me to think this way, im sick of party girls. They're great people but what i think i need is nerd girl hottie.

i hope you've all enjoyed this honest rant.

 

It is not a bad quality though.
Get that thought out of your mind IMO.
Maybe you do need a "nerd hottie"...but go for what you want regardless of those cliches.
The right one won't care and perhaps will not fit the cliche you may have.
I enjoy honesty.:cheers2:

 

I dont see why one ever needs to leave, really. If you are happy in one place, with your family, and you are supporting yourself, chipping in, working, aka being a successful adult, I see nothing wrong with always sharing a home with your family.

I dont see my self doing that, but when my parents get older, hopefully they will share my home.

 

I'm not happy but i thought i already mentioned that.

 

Xac...Cate, is a hot vibrant woman telling you to stay at home...what more evidence do you need?

 

I'm never going to meet Cate. Although i do understand your point it is like this, even if there are women as beautiful as Cate that do not have a problem with a guy living at home yadayadaya i'm probably not going to meet them and on the odd chance i do meet them they might not dig me at all.

 

i told my parents i'm putting them up in a old folks home

 

Me too.
I already brought a few brochures home. Cause I feel its only fair that they make the final decision.

 

they have no decision on this

 

You need a personal positivity overhaul, chap.
Home or away... you're too bloody miserable about this.

 

me too.
Just need their signatures on the deeds to the house and inheritance...

 

Why should it matter, as long as your parents don't mind. I didn't move out until I was 24.

 

Unless you're a student.. I'd say it's preferrable to move-out between 18-20.. I left for the first time at 17..

 

I agree, Cate. There is nothing wrong with it. The only reason a person might think there is something wrong with it is because they pay too much attention to what other people think.

 

I'm going to end up with my mother in-law living with us and/or my own parents eventually. Although MY parents are totally opposed to the idea, don't even want to think about "putting us out like that, that it wouldn't be fair". However, my mother-in-law feels it's her right and has absolutely no qualms about descending upon our house.

I just wouldn't feel right putting my parents in a home. I'd go mad with guilt. I love my MIL, but oh my goodness, I know it's going to be really difficult having her live with us. Seriously.

 

My dad wishes we all lived together forever.. my mom on the other hand says we need to be independant.. that it's healthy.. she has never told me nor my sisters to leave and she never will, but she doesn't agree with birds not leaving their nest..

 

By that point, Im sure you will have a wing of your home to devote to her, or even a poolside suite

 

I'm still living at home, but I don't like it. Since I was 18 I've made sure that I've earned my keep, but I feel that it is time for me to leave. I will as soon as I have a full time job. Gotta pay the bills somehow.

 

Im still trying to figure out the school thing, slowly but surely. And Im saving up for a car. And Home s just super comfortable right now. Im actually working with my mother now five day a week. We commute together and work together. Its awesome. Its a kind of laborous/shitty job, and I wonder why my mom is doing it because she doesnt at all need to, but I wo nt question a good thing.