How to ask women for sex

The same way I ask the waitress for a seltzer water.

 

I think you just gotta find a woman whos open minded enough. and not a slut?

 

Because not all of us are fucking sluts and are only interested in being sexual with people we love and are in a relationship with

 

Guys, this is why you should never use the S word in front of them. You'll just end up sounding like a whiney insecure little bitch - i love sluts just as long as my girlfriend isnt one, and at the same time they will arc up and sound like they have bigger nads than you. Which will seriously effect your game with any other chic listening

The flip side to that is the love/realtinship thing, you have sex with someone becuase you find them hot and they get you horny, not becuase you have to train them in some way or get something for it. No one is going to respect you if you try and control them with it

 

I don't get 'hot and horny' for people that I'm not in a relationship with, I'm not sure why but I never have been able to. Being in a relationship isn't about controlling someone with sex, if that's the case then you probably aren't in a very good relationship if you're trying to change or train your partner, which is something I've never done. I do not sleep with people unless we have been in a relationship for 6 months or more (which is not the only criteria, btw) and by that time, you know if you're sexually compatible or not. I'm not a whiny insecure bitch, I'm actually quite comfortable with my body, especially after losing 105 pounds to date.

 

I wasnt calling you a whiney little ...... I was usuing your post as an exampoe to the guys why they shouldnt use the S word around girls, it just makes THEM sound overly defensive and WLB's and often you girls will arc up and so butcher than them, compounding the WLB effect