No, please, don't start philosophizing. For me, you are not enough authoritative, to tell if: Telling myself that I'm ugly is not fair to myself? Telling myself that I'm ugly prevents me from feeling nice about myself? I don't really care what the answers are. Your post is another off-topic one. If you just answer my original question, I promise I'll never ever tell myself that I'm ugly again
Dude, women suck. I'm respectful and I listen. They misconstrue me being accomodating and saying hi for being desperate and wanting to get in their pants. Travis Bickle was correct about them "They're like a union". Fuck them all.
It would be very helpful to put up a full length picture of yourself. Anyway, I love a wonderful sense of humor. Look at Robin Williams for example or Robert Anton Wilson and many others. They're not so attractive until you notice their sense of humor. It makes them ohhhhh, sooooo, sexy.
Pretend like you have tons of money and Pretend like you are listing to them and you agree with everything they say
I just wanted to re-focus people on my original question. I don't want them to go off-topic, because we could waste eons talking about raising self-confidence. Sorry, but I won't share the picture of me. Imagine your best male friend or your brother, and tell us what would you suggest him to improve his looks.
What these women are trying to tell you is that you can become more physically attractive to a woman with the right behavior and attitude. I don't care if you guys say it's a bad answer...it's the god's honest truth. You can be hotter than Brad Pitt, but if your personality sucks, or you're a jerk, I won't be physically attractive to you.
I agree with brush your teeth. Be clean....find a personal style that you enjoy and are confident in and go with that....there's nothing more unattractive in my opinion than seeing someone dressing or acting in a way that isn't them.
THANK GOSH!! Someone gets what we're saying. PLus my guy is plenty hot to begin with and I wouldn't change a thing about him. Its not about looks it is all about personality. I personally love a guy that can make me laugh. Tiffany
Yes it is a bad=off-topic answer. My opinion (not impersonal at all) is: You honestly believe that your answer is true but it is not. The only way I can trust you, is to ask you just about physical attractivness, so that you shouldn't lie (both to yourself and myself).
Some girls just like a guys that are honest and care. Just clean up put a nice shirt on and there easy said easy done jeez, doesn't personality count for anything anymore. Tiffany
This is a perfect example of male thinking vs women thinking. You think that an answer is BAD because you think differently than women do. There are as many answers to this question as there are women on the earth. Every woman will have different things that SHE finds attractive. Heck, she won't even be able to give you an answer because it's different with each and every man she is attracted to.
I've found that a lot of girls are attracted to guys who lisp and make all kinds of wild, funny gestures when speaking. You might also want to take a shirt and tie it into a knot so your belly button is showing, and use phrases like 'you go girl' to show that you are sensitive to female empowerment.