How would you choose to finish...

I'm still waiting for that first time. I can only imagine what an orgasm from a BJ will feel like some day. Glad you were able to experience such a great memory.

 

My wife use to let me blow my load in her mouth every weekend when we were teenagers, while that felt amazing I prefer to release in her ass nowadays.

 

This forum is the only way I’m aware that some guys can’t cum from a blowjob. That makes no sense to me. Most guys are constantly dying for a BJ. I genuinely don’t understand why some guys can’t cum that way.

 

I'm guessing that I'm just not as sensitive as some. Even during normal sex, a lot of the time the only way I'll orgasm is if I'm pounding her really hard. Most of the time if I'm not getting a hard fast impact against my pelvis, I'm not going to orgasm. But she loves that so it's usually not a problem. But if I'm relaxing and enjoying the BJ (which feels amazing) I've never had it happen. Who knows. We're all unique in our own ways

 

Something that cums easily for most may not be as easy for others. I have never cum just from oral sex. The stimulation of my cock orally just isn't enough. Her hand or pussy does it but not her mouth. It's like many other things in life. Most people like the taste of apple pie. Some don't and those that do cannot understand why they don't. Everybody's body is different and the body reacts to everything in a different way.

It has nothing to do with how sensitive you are. It's how your mind reacts to having your cock sucked. If your mind will release your body to orgasm from oral stimulation then you will orgasm from it. If not you won't.

 

Well, for some people, I guarantee he’s right and there are different levels of overall sensitivity.

And back to my original point, I just can’t fathom how someone can’t cum from a BJ. That just doesn’t compute for me. It’s especially surprising and nonsensical (in my mind) to be able to cum from a handjob but not a BJ, because a mouth and tongue are wet and warm and much more similar to the feeling of a pussy than a hand is. But hey, whatever. I’m just thankful I’m not in that boat.

 

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Sometimes when guy can't cum from a blowjob only that it may be because the cock is used to heavier pressure and friction, like from a hand. Maybe your suck partner can use a little more mouth pressure while sucking with heavier tongue action. Suck a lot harder and see if that helps. It did for me.

 

On hop top please. Those others look hot in porn and all but I’m always more satisfied delivering goods right to the baby maker

 

Right, don't be afraid to be a little firm with it, just don't strangle it or rub it raw.. I promise a very happy ending....

 

I would take any one of them. She could ride me hard then suck me off with all her juices on me and finish me off in her tits.

 

Right in the mouth, drain me dry while sucking good and looking me right in the eyes.

 

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Well if the option was there I'd choose to cum in my wifes friends mouth or over her tits after she's watched my fuck my wife.

 

He or she is not sucking the head hard enough. The mouth can be a lot tighter than a pussy. Explain to your blower that they need to suck harder.

 

I never understood why it was labeled a "blow job" when you're actually sucking not blowing. I suck guys off, I don't blow them!

 

Blow-job should be renamed to suck-play.....

 

I've always sucked guys off, I may occasionally provide a blow on their sloppy wet cock to enhance the moment but I'm always sucking on that entire cock from it's balls to it's head until I get my reward of his load of cum. That is what sucking cock is all about...Get that load of cum! It's what he wants and it's what I want.

 

Exactly. Good suction while providing tongue movement. It's all about the head and balls for me. I don't have much sensitivity on my shaft.

 

My wife always asks me how do you want to have sex today? Fuck, BJ, hand job, mutual masturbation? I tell her as long as I cum in the end it doesn't matter to me and as long as you are satisfied.