hmmm.. hmm.m.. (i have not read allt he posts on this thread, so my comments might be similar to someones elses but here goes) i think that you are just having an old fashinoed behavioral pattern- because in the olden days, like umm.. in ancient greece, men would be off marrying girls my age- like 14-18 year old years. this usually happened after they finshed military service and were citizens or something. and then over time, things sorted out and now its the norm to marry someone within your own age and balb albla. as lnog as you keep your comments to your self and to the close people around you, then that is fine. but i can tell you- i hae it when these wierd middle aged men smile and me and stare at my chest area. i hate it. i really do. keep your eyes off those areas.. it makes me (atleast i know i dont enjoy old men, im not sure about some other girls) reallu uneasy and i feel like.. well.. scared. because not all men can contain themselves. aslong as you contain your self.. then you have nothing to worry about. just keep it healthy.
Hahaha you're pretty much right, except the olden days weren't so far back, in many places that was still common as little as 50 years ago...
It is alright Nisha to you we must seem ancient yeah right bug man... http://womensissues.about.com/cs/arrangedmarriage/ http://www.geocities.com/Paris/5121/marriage.htm http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/world/europe/3148364.stm
Why? It is natural and such, basicaly just instict to find younger women more attractive, but being such varied ages seems like it would cause problems in a relationship...
FallenFairy you got it right , girls should be left to find out about love in thear own age , some guys like young girls becaus ,they cant handle a woman? PEACE and LOL,
I don't agree with look but don'tt ouch. looking is harmsul too. a 14 or even a 16 year old doesn't shouldn't have to feel self concious of whether they're being looked at or not by guys-especially guys over 30.
couldnt have put it better myself lynsey , i dont say minks aney more <sad> i was told i spelt it ronge ,i tought it was nice ,can you tell me is it that inportant how its spelt ,sad jimmie, hahaha,peace and lol
souless i believe he was joking with the perv comment. an mr anonymous, 16-18 is the prime attractive age, there was a thread on here not too long ago talking about how a study was done that showed 17 year olds have the most physically attractive features out of all the age groups, so a couple years either way isnt rally that taboo.... the psychological aspects however..,.im not so sure. we're all women's lives ruined in the 1800's when they married 30 year olds at 13-16? i don't think so, otherwise our societty is built on a broken foundation (not to say it isn't, buti believe our societty is broken for different reasons) then it was socially acceptable and the trauma of such was minimilized. now adays, girls that age are told if they are touched that way by an older man, then there innocence has been stolen, they were wronged, they're going ot be psycologicially damaged for life ect ect...and because of that, i believe they become the things society says they will. if you tell someone they lost their innocence, they were wronged, and that they';re lives will permanently be damaged, their obviously going to harbour resentment towards those they perceive did that to them...but if they were told theres nothing wrong with it, then i believe they'd accpet it as such. take lower income families, many people from lower income families resent societty, or their parents for denying them what our societty says they should have (2 cars, own house, cable t.v. ect ect)....but if you took someone out of a 3rd world country who grew up in a societty where people had nothing, being lower class in our societty would make them feel priveledged and more content with the world. im not saying damage isnt done to young people who are sexually active with older people, but i do believe that damage is caused more so by the way our soceitty perceives that relationship, than any damage done by the relationship itself.
So, does anyone think masterbating to child pictures (taken with consent, yet illegal) is ok? I've been curious, because my friend confronted me about that.