hug ban

Discussion in 'Random Thoughts' started by darthkacie, Jun 11, 2009.

  1. bekyboo52

    bekyboo52 52~unknown~52

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    ih agreeah ^ :D
     
  2. odon

    odon Slightly Popular

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    Shame on you Jaitaiyai, shame on you.

    NO.
     
  3. Jaitaiyai

    Jaitaiyai Cianpo di tutti capi

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    hahaha... :D

    But.. but.. :(

    All you need is love...? :D
     
  4. odon

    odon Slightly Popular

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    Sorry. I just don't understand the need to hug my friends when I see them. For one...none of them deserve it :D
     
  5. Jaitaiyai

    Jaitaiyai Cianpo di tutti capi

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    You're male. It's not gay for me to hug my friends. :cool:

    Honestly, most of my male friends'll hug a girl but not a guy. *shrugs* They just don't.
     
  6. odon

    odon Slightly Popular

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    I know it may shock you, but I do have female friends.
    I don't hug them.
    It does not seem like a natural thing to do...
    It does feel like a trend.

    A few years ago it was a trend to greet your friends with a complicated handshake...like you were some gangsta.
    It probably stills goes on.
    Like hugging your friends...it is totally pointless.
    It just seems an OTT way of greeting a friend.

    If it were a natural thing to do, and didn't really mean much, but a friendly welcome, then men would hug their male friends.
    But, generally they don't.
    Don't you think men just do it because they want contact with a female?
     
  7. Jaitaiyai

    Jaitaiyai Cianpo di tutti capi

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    haha.. Yep! :D

    It's funny.

    But it's not pointless.
     
  8. odon

    odon Slightly Popular

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    Tell me the point and I'll go hug all my female friends.
    Heck, I'll hug all my male friends too.
     
  9. Jaitaiyai

    Jaitaiyai Cianpo di tutti capi

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    For me, I like my friends so I'll hug them. It's usually preceded by 'I love you' so... Yeah. I don't hug everyone, it's just to show your friends you care. I guess. It must be different for most people.

    Once, 2 years ago, my friend hugged me so hard I started crying, partly from laughter, and when she let go I fell over because I couldn't stand up. My legs couldn't. That was freakin' hilarious.

    EDIT: I'm not saying that everyone should go round hugging their friends, but it's not pointless.
     
  10. odon

    odon Slightly Popular

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    I like my friends too. ;)
    I would not go as far as saying I love them.
    I can appreciate it might be a sweet thing to do.
    But to me it is just not original.
    It just seems like a fad.
    I guess you should focus on this line:
    I can appreciate it might be a sweet thing to do.
     
  11. GLENGLEN

    GLENGLEN Banned

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    In Many Cultures They Do Just That..:).



    Cheers Glen.
     
  12. opel diamond

    opel diamond burn out

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    i don't hug.
     
  13. Jaitaiyai

    Jaitaiyai Cianpo di tutti capi

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    A fad? Hm. Maybe, I doubt it. This isn't a new thing.
     
  14. odon

    odon Slightly Popular

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    I know.
    I'm just focusing on predominantly western teenagers hugging their friends though.
    I've noticed Japenese teenagers doing the same thing too.
    Maybe it is a teenage thing and is completely lost on me. :eek:
     
  15. IamnotaMan

    IamnotaMan I am Thor. On sabba-tickle. Still available via us

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    I remember going to an 18th party for some private school twit.
    And the guys and the girls danced in a "politically correct" way.
    Sort of arms round each other facing but no other contact of bodies - only heads/arms etc.

    I mean what a fucking load of shit....!!:eek::rolleyes:
     
  16. odon

    odon Slightly Popular

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    I'm sorry, but you should be killed for putting politically correct into quotes.
    Heck, you should be killed for saying politically correct.
     
  17. Evidently, putting "politically correct" in quotes is not politically correct! hahahaha
     
  18. odon

    odon Slightly Popular

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    It certainly isn't.
     
  19. shaggie

    shaggie Senior Member

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  20. I'minmyunderwear

    I'minmyunderwear Newbie

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    i can't trust that article after reading the first sentence: "For teens, there is no greater joy than graduating high school."

    hell, i had several greater joys than that, and i didn't even have sex.
     
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