I am in shock

I'm really sorry to hear about this, Jen. I hope things will get better.
It sucks that your dad is trying to drag you and your sisters into it, too. I'd just try to stay out of it

 

I don't know what to do

 

Did you try talking to them?
If they wanna split up they're gonna do it.. I dunno if you could really do anything to stop it.

 

I mean about taking her off my friends list

 

he said to tracey, I have to drink to be with you

 

Damn.. he sounds kinda mean I don't really know what to tell ya.. I'd probably just keep her on your friends list.

 

I don't want him thinking I am taking sides either

 

Let him know that you love and support him, but you like her too and still wanna be friends with her.

 

that's good

 

Definitely. There's no reason you can't do both. If he doesn't want you being friends with her, then he's being hella selfish.

 

: heard you and your sister's got a note from tracey,so sorry!!! time to get her off your list so you don't have to see things like that.Love ya and will talk soon via phone

 

Well Jen it is what it is.....I am heartbroken but realize that at my age I am set in my ways and so is your dad. Your dad says he is a alcoholic because he has to drink to be with me....and I can't live with that on my concious. I would like to keep in touch as well. As I said, I really did care about all you girls....thank you so much.

 

Is that what your dad said?


Btw.. those names have links that lead to their facebook pages. You might wanna take that off.

 

Thanks sweetie! By the way, please show your dad this letter and let him no it wasn't HATE as he is posting to people on Facebook. Thanks!

 

I fixed it. that's what he had said to Tracey about him having to drink to be with her

 

That's pretty mean. Your dad will probably calm down after awhile, though.

 

nope he won't he was like that with my mom, he has to have this control, it's going to be one nasty divorce, I can tell you that right now

 

I think I should try and call him, I tried last night but he did not answer

 

Ya, definitely give him a call.

 

I talked to him, he asked if my mom knew and I told him no, I should have just told him, that she over heard me talking to my sister on the phone,why did I lie?