I am married!!!!

Something is again just not right here......if I were Spiderman I would say what????? My spider senses are tingingiling.....but more to earth my radar is up and my light tells me that something is just not so.

Get some help mud as nothing adds up then in logical terms that means a zero.

Love and light to you but something is not right.

 

Why would you post about a marriage in the shithole but not put pictures up? I am a bit confused as to the reasoning behind even posting about it then?

congrats if its true but like others I find things just aren't adding up here.

 

She didn't give you the ring back??????? That is sooooo fucked up of her.

 

Bella! I cant believe it, a girl who agrees with me! :tongue:
But in reality, we are still really good friends (just friends, I mean we hug each other if were upset and need someone to listen to us, but thats it) and the money means nothing to me now. Im glad she gave me my wonderful little boy, and that she is a responible mother when she takes him on her days.
It was a beautiful ring though, I remember her browsing and saying she liked it, and I sneaked out one day and bought it for her. We were already going to get married anyway, but I knew that she loved her rings haha. THe only reason we split up is because I was put in jail on false attempted homicide charges, and a LOT of shit went down in the past 10 months since then until my name was cleared, and she couldnt handle me being away and sort of lost her mind, got really depressed and, well the rest of it I dont wish to speak of since it still hurts, its sad really because we both know that we are both in love with each other, but she has a new boyfriend (who she complains about daily lol) and I live right in the city, so, oh well.
Thank you for feeling for me though, Bella. That was nice of you!

 

This it heart-breaking to me.

 

You're always supossed to give the ring back unless he breaks off the engagement, cheats or is abusive. That's pretty common knowledge.

I gave my ring back both times I was engaged (to the same person...and I was justified in breaking it off and was not just getting cold feet). The first time he wouldn't take it back so I went in while he was at work and left my key and the ring...it's really unclassy to keep the ring. And if it's that sentimental where she didn't want to give it back because of that she should have never broken it off.
I would say I hope she dumps this guy and asks for you back, but I don't think she deserves you.
I'm sorry that errkkkksssss me!
My best friend has her engagement ring but that's because her parents paid for most of it, which is indicative that she shouldn't have gotten engaged to him in the first place...
I just don't like girls who give us good girls a bad name or girls like my friend who enable guys to think it's okay to get married when you are in no place to
edit...and I am not saying you have to be super well off to get married but commmon if you can't finance or buy a ring yet you think you are ready to have a wife you're just freaking ridiculous

 

leave it alone and be nice. If things aren't said in the true spirit of trying to help than they shouldn't be said imo
...not that I'm an angel

 

Me too lol
Its ok, Im learning to deal with it, all that really matters is that my son is alive and healthy and he loves me, and I get to raise him. I have a place to live, usually have enough food to eat, and Im currently trying to quit my opiate addiction, but after I got out of jail and me and my ex broke up I went right back to shooting up again. Ive only taken morphine orally, WAY less than I was a month ago, and Im cutting my dose in half every time and only taking it once, or twice a week at the most. So, Im free, have a place to live, and I try and get closer to Krsna every day

 

THank you Bella! You seem to speak as if you have gone through some purely shitty situations in life yourself, and I respect that you have taken the time to help me and showing that you actually care about other people problems. It seems like there just isnt too many people in this world who are capable of showing compassion and giving advice anymore. You are really a beautiful soul is seems! And if you ever need a friend to talk to if your feeling down, I would be more than happy to return this wonderful favore

 

Awe well you're just a sweetheart for saying that! And awesome because I love talking to knew people and you seem like you've been in some shity situations too, but haven't allowed them to sour your spirit.
It's been a really bumpy road, but I am so thankful for every experience because I wouldn't be who I am today with out them and I love who I am today (that's right I said it, I <3 myself).
HUGS

 

Hugs right back to you, and glad to meet you
And you are very true, its how we react to and grow from the sad situations our lives sink into at times, that teach us the most about our inner strength and beauty.

"Adversity is like a strong wind…it doesn’t just hold us back from places we might otherwise go. It also tears away from us all but the things that cannot be torn, so that afterward, we see ourselves as we really are, and not merely as we might like to be."
- Memoirs Of A Geisha

 

You're kidding me? That's one of my favorite books!

 

It is definitley a beautiful story! And I love that quote, it is so true, only when we are faced with opposition and difficulty do we truly find out how strong we really are!

 

Either you're lying again, or you have a bizarre reason for not telling me this the day before posting about it on the Forums..

I could list the evidence that you are indeed lying, but I'm serioulsy bored of this game now..

 

Look , I know all about you , and you need to just back off now and leave her alone. Like , why would she HAVE to tell you what shes doing anyway , your not her father , and you never been her man.

 

man i love weddings..always have and always will. any wedding pics?

 

Fine...List your Evidence...

 

Baby , hes worthless...just dont even waste your time worrying about him.

 

If I am Not married...Then Who the Hell Do People Think you are Then...Jon?

 

Its cool , I know who I am , an , I like me.