I can't get horny..

If I pull my pants up to my chest, can we date?

I hate kids on my lawn!

 

I totally understand you... I really think a man in his mid 30's-40's sometimes even 50's can be really fucken hot! I don't really ever see myself with one though. I'm happy with the man I'm with now. But something about a silver fox is just so AH!
I neither have daddy problems.

 

I've actually wanted this since I've hit puberty lol... the age goes up as I get older tho i've noticed. What does me being bisexual have to do with anything? Just because I recently came out doesn't mean that I haven't known it for awhile. It isn't all this at once.

 

Nyxx, you are projecting there, just because to you WF's tastes might be all over the place and yours focused on just one type doesnt make you more stable than her. In fact it may be the other way around, you might moreso go to pieces around one specific type, whereas WF in control as her tastes are broader, and less likely to do stupid things to get the attention of her target group.

And taking a break, taking all the time in the world, isnt going to change the fact that whoever it is that really gets you, me or her horny or smitten isnt up to us

 

The only thing I projected was my opinion Dr. Freud. Thanks!

 

Errg, well sorry, but grew up with that type of thinking, you have to do this, that, be closer to the norm so you'll end up happy etc


Whereas the opposite is true, everyone else gets bored of normal



To continue the Freud thing, maybe why she likes older guys is they are more sensitive lovers, like the girls, they dont look like girls, but they act more like girls in the bedroom compared to 20 yr old rabbits.............either that or she secretly wants to do her dad

 

BTW, with the daddy issues, it does look that way with most girls, you all say you dont have daddy issues but then most of you end up marrying a guy thats very similar to your dad or get a boyfriend thats a younger carbon copy of the dad, wears the same kind of clothes and stuff like that.

And it seems to be subconscious, you all dont realise you do this, and are in denial, but to everyone else it looks kind of obvious.

So it may not be a conscious thing, but it does come off looking like most of you want to fuck your dads


Why am I interested in this: Its kind of something no one warned me about back in my teen years off to the secret gay meetings, edging 40 its something that well, is starting to get really fucking annoying. But there is a duality there, on one side the spare daddy thing is really annoying, but on the other side scrags like WF seem to be my main competition nowadays in relation to attention from guys my age, attention, not sex, not interested in the half halves but well you know

PS: I used the term scrag there in a complimentary way

 

Or...the less fucked up pervert perception.
....

Their dad is a great guy and they want who their with
(whatever age they may be)
to have the same sound morals, kindness, and responsibility.

God..I gag at the thought of my father in that circumstance with me it's fucking disgusting.

I like older men because they've had some fun already..they've put themselves out there..they've had some time for reflection so they know what they want..some of which already have it and just need that special person to join them on their adventures. At night you feel safe...because their bigger..stronger..more prepared for the unexpected. They know how to please a women in the bedroom, they don't wear their pants hanging off their ass. They're usually educated, if not formally then with life experience..

Can't that be reason enough...
Why do you have to assume the worst.
I'm sure in some circumstances some fucked up girls get off at the idea of their father under them..on them..whatever.

But in this scenario, I just want my cuddly fucking grizzly bear!!!

The thing is, as much as I enjoy freedom of speech, and I value the fact that you express your opinions VG, they all come out as bigot, or fundamentalist bullshit. Chances are..I don't want the attention from the types you're trying to attract. I just want a kind, older, mature man to live life with. Have a family with. There really aren't alternative motives..or secret hidden daddy issues..or incestual desires. Older men...are just where it's at.

 

We need Dr. Phil for this subject.

 

hahahahaaa

 

I just think of you naked each time this thread pops up,, and then something else pops up...

 

The hot trigger occurs very young, 4 to 6. We become impressioned by circumstances and people that are present at our first senses of attraction, somewhat like the bonding behavior of a duck. A baby duck bonds with the first big thing that contacts it. Often times we do not remember much detail at that age, it happens very quickly so that's why it seems such a mystery sometimes. I'm not talking about orientation. You can be horny and not be "hot".

 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lkGF5VU-J5s"]YouTube- Barry White - Staying Power (1999) - 02. Don't Play Games

 

fine, but it can't be pseudo-dr phil/vanillagorilla

 

Hey, I get what your saying, on an individual case it might be innocent, but collectively it just looks that way, majority of girls seem to be like that, and it just seems really icky

And I dont think its just my perverted view, a lot of guys say stuff like that, just they never say it when girls are around.

And a bit of a case of the pot calling the kettle black, well not with my dad he was way too average, but Uncle and Grandafather were finer specimens, and If I'm with an older guy that reminds me.....it is a bit of....hey, get out of my head......

I suppose you could say the same for straight guys as well and their mums, only it works the opposite way with age so its not as obvious, chasing girls that are like thier mums when they were little

 

LOL... that is too ... close to home!!

I live next door to a lesbian couple. Not sure who is tougher the Jr. High Gym Teacher (I know ... so cliché) or the Trucker. I kid you not, one of them is a trucker and parks her big rig out front (bigger than mine ... I'm so jealous ) .

But seriously, they are both good people, a little misguided at times - nothing to do with their sexual choice, just kind of full of shit sometimes.

Actually, good point Vanilla ... as a guy who has been married 3 times (yeah I don't date, I marry ) there is some validity to the daddy issue thing.

Great counterpoint Wildflower, and coming from one so young. Biologically you might be young, but spiritually you might be an old soul.

 

Vanilla, sorry, but I don't think it's the same thing. The women that are most attractive to me have nothing in common with my mom.

Also, if you feel young women are competition, well your whole Daddy hypothesis is beginning to sound like sour grapes.

However, I think Wildflowers reasoning is sound concerning older guys. Not trying to be condescending, but for the most part women want security. It's a biological imperative. And an older, more experienced, more established guy offers that.

Also, older guys are far more appreciative of younger women than young men are. I say that from my own experience.

In my late teens and through my twenties I did not appreciate the TOTALITY of young women, or women in general, as I do now. It's almost as if my thinking were 2-dimensional when I was a young knucklehead. Time and experience has changed that considerably.

Wildflower ... of course the thing about fantasies is that you control them and things happen just as you want them to. When it gets into the realm of reality ... well ... it's possible you could be disappointed ... or experience something so much better than you could have imagined. It's a risk worth taking.

 

You may be surprised as Vanilla Gorilla may not be that far off. There have been numerous studies now done on Facialmetric measurements and the mates we choose.

It is not a conscious choice and rather interesting.

More and source:
http://rspb.royalsocietypublishing.org/content/276/1654/91.full

 

Awww, stop worrying about causality and come to Colorado WF.

We even have a Hot tub. Make sure you have arthritis or something and you can get your MMJ card as well. We love gardening here.

Theres about 8 of us sharing a 5 bedroom house, pretty cozy. :cheers2:

 

I've generally fallen for older guys, although my boyfriend is my age so in the end age didn't matter to me. But I know where you are coming from.

(And despite what you think Vanilla Gorilla, none of the guys I have liked are anything like my father except that they are good people who would take care of a family)