^ You're probably right, I do have a bad temper. It really pissed me off though, I'm not good at thinking about what I'm saying...
Unfortunatly most people here are right....bosses who hire people will judge you by the way you look when you go in for an interview. Alot of places don't consider jeans (even dressy black jeans) good enough for the work place. My kids hated the fact that they had to wait till they were old enough to work somewhere...then of course both my son's first jobs were fast food places. AFTER 1 son already had the job did he walk in dressed like Marilyn Manson....and yes, my son painted his face totally white with black lipstick & went to work in the kitchen of BK. After he proved that he could run the kitchen by himself...everyone got used to it & knew that whatever he wore or music he listened to had no effect on the quality of his job. Actually he probably worked better when they let him just be him.
^ If you're joking, lol If you're not...there is no normality, and who would want to be normal anyway?? I think you're joking though.
me 2. anyway, too bad this chick was such a shallow moron and put you down in such a crude way. too bad you couldn't get a job this summer. just try it again next summer and try to learn from it. I think the being assertive instead of aggressive thing is a good one...
yeh hon, i that saying "fuck you bitch" was wrong. I understand where you are coming from. I had my time. I havent seen your picture or anything, but if you are going to look out of the norm, people are going to look at you and think your "wierd". Unfortunatley people are not very accepting and if you dont conform to society's standards, people will look at you funny. Maybe your in a phase, maybe not. But you are who you are. I do think you should think about what you say before you say it though. I think you already know that though... I stopped caring what people think more recently though. I realized the important people are already in my life and if I happen to meet a few that accept me for who I am then that makes it all the better. But you must realize your in high school or junior high and kids will be kids and pick on who they can to hide their insecurities and make themselves feel better. However if you are going to get a job you should care about what your employer thinks. I usually dress up for job interviews, black dress pants and a nice shirt. But, your 14, dont you have to be at leadt 15 for a work permit?!
My point is, you're being a little over-dramatic. Just because you were turned down at one place doesn't mean you're totally fucked in life. Just let it roll off your shoulder. It's better, anyway, that they blew you off immediately instead of hiring you and then being assholes later, right? Anyway, it's fine... you're barely even old enough to work, so don't sweat it so much. Just take the advice you've been given, move on, and apply somewhere else.
Wow, I don't know what to say, my parents paid for everything including University and my car, and my first job was working for canadian conservative party. I got paid $12 an hour, I don't love being an asshole but it's times like these I like to laugh at poor people.
Why do you like to laugh at poor people. It seems that's kind of...almost like...hmm, enjoying being an asshole. But why would you listen to me? I'm poor.