I do the ultimate thing men fear

no, i would never, ever make fun of someone i've been in bed with. never. that's private and it shows a complete lack of respect to the person's sexuality. whether i enjoyed it or not isn't the point...it's still private between me and them. not something to be made fun of. nor would i listen to someone else doing it about someone they'd been with. the most i'd ever do is to TALK (not joke) with a friend i trust about past sexual experiences. but that would be for the sake of a conversation, not something to dehumanise the other person.

i think it's cruel. if you don't enjoy being with them...then don't be with them! but it doesn't give you the right to be cruel and expose something personal of theirs to others who they haven't given permission to see that. i wouldn't want others to do it to me and i certainly would not do it to them. it's about respcting the other - their privacy and space and own personhood and sacred to them and who they choose to share it with only.

 

I know man they're the worst.
That's funny see I knew I wasn't the only one. People just do that. One time I was with a guy and there was toliet paper stuck in my...and I am assuming he told his friends but I was so repulsd by him i threw up on him during sex so ya know we're even

 

I don't kiss and tell about nice boys. I am really good friends with most of my exes but come on some guys you just can't help it...it's not like any of the made fun of ones know my friends. it's not even like I tell them they suck.

 

well, i mean, men need to be instructed on how to get you there, you know? we're all kinda different.

 

Well....Ive only had 2 men....and they both werent verry good....but I would never hurt their feelings.

 

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never mind, low hurdle to go there and not worth it to stoop so low

 

Mean spirited or not, depends on your motives, but I myself don't really see the big deal. I certainly couldn't care any less if one of my ex girlfriends sat around her ninny friends and bickered like bitty birds about such nonsense. If it tickles your fancy, have at it, chica. Hell, I've bitched about girls that I've hooked up with that give blowjob-from-hell.. I've never named names and actually acted out the blowjob with my friends -- but hell, whatever floats your proverbial goat.

As a few of the other hipsters have mentioned, if it was someone I was serious about (not just a one night fling), I would certainly express my feelings to them before I went gossiping about town.

 

Why would you assume anything I write is about you? I read your post that was deleted last night. This is getting creepy and your temper is really scary, please stop. You can't push me or grab me, rip the phone outta the wall or abuse me in person anymore and I changed my number so you can't call me up in the middle of the night drunk to call me names anymore so you have to find ways to do it on the internet? Please leave me alone. I do not want to have to ask again, it's harassing and slandering.

 

I don't mention names except to my best friends who would never spill. See guys complain about bj's all the time and you guys are always making fun of girls and teeth and all of that...and ya'll are telling me I can't make fun of jack rabbit sex?

 

I think you're more than warranted to make fun of "jack rabbit sex", it just depends on who exactly you're making fun of it with. As long as it's just you and your homies, I can't see the problem. If you where going around telling HIS friends or telling people he might actually try to date, than that would be cruel I think.

Much luck improving your sex life though. Hopefully no more spasmic bunny sex for you.

 

hahaaaaaa bunny sex that's even funnier. No I would never ever tell anyone any of the guys hung with, that's just cruel. My friends find most of the guys I date boring so we all don't hang together usually so none of them have even met most of those I make fun of. I need to change that and be with somone who can hang with us and who is not into bunny sex...if I'm layin there like a corpse it means I'm just not into it dude.

 

NO DOUBT!!!

Maybe you should try not spreading for every guy. I mean how the hell do you end up in bed with someone that disgust you enough to throw up. You can try to come off with whatever rationalization you want but it is really about making fun of them to feel better about yourself, which is never cool. Maybe you are the reason you end up with so many losers. I also hate to tell you but the partner your with is part of the inspiration. It could be your partners were just not that inspired to give you their all.

 

GOD...........I feel sorry for the guy you threw up on.....that was REALLY going too far .......maybe it wouldnt bother you if a guy puked on you during sex....but , YOU crawled in bed with him !!!!!

 

It sounds a bit immature to be honest. I'd have a laugh to myself thinking, 'ha, poor thing he thinks he's hot stuff...NOT' and move on. Though it can be good material for stand up so whatever makes you happy.

 

seems like the whole thing stems from a lack of self respect to me

totally classless

Even at its sleaziest, i take sex as more special than this

 

it's just that it seems so mean. i can't imagine taking something so personal and important and mocking it.

 

This right here is what I believe is the big hub-bub about this whole thing. The idea of fucking, or screwing or "making love", is totally subjective. How are we to know how much these men/boys did or didn't mean to her? Or vice versa, even..?

It doesn't seem like she's being malicious is all that I'm saying. Are there better things to talk about? Sure. Is it mean? Sure. But in the grand scheme of things.. the whole things is small potatos. I'm sure the very boys she's making fun of did and do the EXACT same thing about her with their friends.. and yes, she deserves it.

Such is life.

 

meh. i prefer not to glorify badmouthing people behind their backs. i try not to do it, though i will slip up from time to time. but why should i be okay badmouthing someone just because they've badmouthed me? it's my karma to gaurd. just because someone else is a dick doesn't mean i need to be one, too, and that it's okay. i don't think it's okay.

 

Exactly.....its not ok !!!

 

Who's glorifying badmouthing people?

I think anybody can see that it's a petty and immature thing to do, but, as you stated, even the best of us slip up from time to time. I don't commend Lynsey for what she did, but I think quite a few people on this thread have gotten a little preachy on their soapboxes.

My main point being.. when I first came to this thread, I thought she was going to say, "I cut their dicks off while they're sleeping." Because that's what my ultimate fear is. Some bangtail talking smack behind my back? That's no sweat off my ass.