I don't get it

hope this helps

 

She told me that because I'm going to jail and have sold drugs etc that she can't see me being the person I'm aspiring to be. To her, who I was weighs more heavily than who she sees me as.

 

but then she said you were boring and after what she does now she thinks she has a right to judge you?...bitch I'm sorry dude consider yourself lucky as hell that this happened when it did. you are WAY TOO GOOD for her.

 

and I'll write you and send you care packages and so will your other friends. you don't need her

 

"but then she said you were boring and after what she does now she thinks she has a right to judge you?"

What she is doesn't even compare to who I was or what I've done.

Honestly I don't blame her for 'leaving me'......Seriously, I wouldn't let me in my own car if I wasn't me; let alone trust and believe in me as a person. I'm just mad about.......about being basically lied to because she felt it was the obligatory nice thing to do.

 

then in actuality she's the dishonest and immoral one;right?

 

I'm not taking up for her, just saying I see where she was coming from..... except the boring thing. I am by no means boring.

 

alot of girls think its alright to use guys, and string them along/play them until something better comes along. i know so many girls like that, you have to spot it before they screw you over.... it really sucks.

girls like that give all of us a bad name

 

Yeah they do. I'm going back to the 3 F's; atleast those are emotionally sound.

 

3 F's?

 

fucking, friendship and fun. fun for awhile but not very emotionally fulfilling

 

Fucking(or pleasing atleast), friendship and fun is what I just got done with. I'm moving on to finding, fucking, and forgetting.

 

If I wanted emotional fulfillment I'll get a puppy.

Chin up ChaosFactor. Other fish in the barrel.

Try not to let it get'cha down. Your a good guy, you're probably just looking for the wrong kinda girls. Maybe you should look for ones that are a little less... Bitches.

 

Indiana's like a masquerade ball. All these bitches are incognito.

 

What's to get? She probably uninvited everyone so that she could be alone with you. She tells you stuff hoping you'll get mad(which you do) so that when she tells you that she's cheating and is no good that she won't feel so bad. You can do better and adults don't get bored in relationships that easily so don't fret my pet.

 

It was my party. Shit ended up hitting the fan early and people bounced. Others didn't come through. We were sooooooooooooooo close to being asleep when everything fell apart. I don't think it was planned, but I do think it was inevitable.

 

Don't get to sad about this 'cause there are plenty of women and probably ones that you have more in commond with and are more honest. Someone that thought you were good enough to sleep with but not good enough to hang out with isn't wrapped too tight.

 

We never slept together.

 

OOPS! Sorry, heard you mention going to bed and I assumed that you two were living together. I apologise once more. I'm not the best person in the world to listen about these things but I can tell you this. Telling you that you're boring and then telling you that there is someone better is a rotten thing to do. Even if she was tired of you she could have told you sooner but some people need back up before they can end a relationship. I've know people that have gotten bored and intentionally did things to mess up the relationship. (I'll give you an example without naming names ok?)


There was this guy that was going with this chick and the two of them hadn't been together for more than 3 weeks before he asked for sex and she asked for an engagement ring. They both got what they wanted for awhile until she became too clingy and he became too annoyed. He told her he needed some space and then after awhile he tried to capture the relationship. Finally she began to believe, with a little help from her friends, that he had been cheating on her. (This more than likely wasn't true.) She had lost her engagement ring a few month prior and he had promised to get her a new one. (That never happened.)
Once again he tried to get together with her but now she was seeing someone new and no longer was interested. Now you ask what does this have to do with your situation. Well, I'll tell you. She was clinging on to him and saying things like there was no one else and throwing all her time and energy into him but when she relized that there was indeed someone else for her then life became a whole lot better.
Now I say to you life will get a whole lot better.

 

I know it will. If it hadn't come to a head the way it did this would be easier, but what happened didn't make any sense. I can't stand not understanding something.