I don't like to give head

ya know I just don't like it. I can't help it and as I get older and the more I have to offer other people besides my sexuality the less and less I like it. I haven't given head in a couple years.


You guys were right though it was not very nice of me to pretend. I am up front about it now and it's suprising how accepting men can be and how everyone I date appreciattes different things about me and some people hate what somone else might think is cute (by the way I am sick of being termed as cute...smart, funny, articulate...those would be nice instead).

sex is important I wouldn't blame anyone for not wanting to be with me if they were a huge fan of blowjobs because it sucks being in a sexually incompatible relationship, been in a few and wouldn't wish it upon anyone.

 

If you don't like it, for whatever reason, he should respect that. As someone else said in this thread, there are other ways of enjoying sex. I love getting a blowjob, but I like a good handjob just as much. If I never had another BJ but got a super handjob regularly instead, I'd be more than satisfied.

Sex lives have to be a compromise unless you're both happy do do anything for each other. But you need to communicate that, and if you can't i think it's going to be a difficult relationship.

 

my gag reflex refuses to let me enjoy giving head..
especially when guys push my head down on themselves..
i hate that :/
but if it's a special boy, i'll do whatever his little heart desires

 

The only place a guy is sticking it inside my body is in my mouth, and I love giving head and tasting a guys cum. Not real big on swallowing if I don't have to.

Point is, don't like it - don't do it. I don't like being fucked that much, so I don't fuck. That simple. Don't like it? - sorry!

There ARE compromises to be made, but you're right, to be in a sexually incompatible relationship sucks, for both parties.