I don't want to do it

Jesus Tap Dancing Christ, here we go.

 

Polyester, do you really think that will help this young womyn?

You have a right to your opinion, but the OP didn't ask "Am I commiting a sin, in your opinion." She just needs support.

Little One, you know most of us care about you.

 

Wow, the OP is mean as hell. From her first few posts you can see she is probably verbally abusive to her bf.

Let's see, why didn't he tell her the condom broke? Probably because she's verbally abusive and he was afraid of how bad she'd freak out on him and blame all her stress caused by it all on him. Maybe he didn't tell her because he knew she was going through a stressful time and thought that it would be ok and it would be better not to worry her with it...Who knows...

Breaking up with him because of this? That's bullshit. If you want to break up with someone, then find real reasons, not because he made one mistake, or he lost his job, or any other bs like that. Judging from your posts, it's clear that you only can point the blame to him...and in my experience, that is a telltale sign that you aren't happy with YOURSELF and you are just using him as a scapegoat for your unhappiness. If you have to break up with him, that's fine. But don't tell him it's because he didn't tell you about the condom or because he lost his job, tell him the REAL reasons.

 

Booze: The OP has issues. However....

The guy she was screwing may well be an utter moron. Put it this way, she sez he didn't think it would matter. This is the guy that has proposed to her before finding a job.

She's doing them both a favor by killing this child and getting on with her life.

 

Yeah, he may be a moron, or he may not be and she is only portraying him that way. Whether he's a moron or not, if she has to break up with him, she should tell him the real reasons (ie her own personal issues), not that it is all his fault because he didn't tell her or whatever.

 

I agree.

But ya gotta agree, this relationship is quite toxic.

But I don't think he held off on telling her cause she was abusive to him.

I think she's stressed out to hell having to deal with this abortion thing by herself. That's why it's coming out aggressively.

 

I am going to close this thread. It is getting OT and some are trying to attack the OP.