i had a bad photoshoot experience :(

And likewise, he should not be sheltered from knowing the error of his ways.

But it is your job to shelter the "good nature" of the forums and show me the error of my ways when I am a part of the threat against it. It's not your fault; that we all have our rule in this comedy, and I will try to behave in the future

 

I should go with you next time and bring my big hammer.

`:smash:
:ack2:

 

Did i say I dont like being looked at?

I dont like being perved on, or feeling uncomfortable!

I think your comment is pointless and i don't see why you even bothered, trying to kick someone while they're down.


Thanks everyone for their nice comments.

especially duck <3

 

In the words of Mark Renton, "It could have been great!" Don`t knock it till you try it. j/k :biggrin:

I hope you`re more selective in the future. Are you really hoping to make serious money from that? Or complement your income?

A part of me feels that, if whatever reason you choose to feign sexuality, others may choose play along. I would prepare myself for that eventuality.

Good luck. :sunny:

 

Yes, play along. He may have been playing with you to produce the desired effect for the photograph.

If a man is looking at you, he is looking for one special reason more than others. Yet you know this, as most models do.

Why does it upset you for a man to be honest and show you the face that he looks out from? If you could see all the men's faces when they looked at you with that thoughtful expression of appreciation on their masks, you would see their leering visages perving on you.

 

Yes, because trying to get alone with the model you're perving on is totally normal and acceptable behavior in photography. Fuck knows what he had planned, she's fucking lucky as hell things didn't go as he wanted. Your cynical "advice" may be useful in other threads, but here it was just an unnecessary jab.

 

Fuck knows what any guy has planned when he sees a pretty girl?

A little tip: It's always the ones you don't expect.

That photographer wouldn't have done anything, maybe made an advance but if you'd have said "fuck off" then he would have.

Or maybe he looks at everyone like that and always acts like that? It could all be going on inside your own head and nowhere else.

 

I've actually been looking into photographers for my wedding and the #1 asset they must have is perviness...it is extremely normal behavior :tongue:

 

lol "Work that, flower girl, lemme see that booty shake"

 

Whatever the personal views of the people on this forum regarding modeling, I think it's safe to say that we can all agree you take beautiful pictures Lynxx! I hope everything works out for your career and as you stated, you are more careful in the future. +1 for Auntie tho!

 

everyone is creepy in the erotic business..

 

Next time maybe look for a photographer who`s actually professional and serious about fashion!

[ame]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oa_ePERLvK4

 

when I was little my aunt brought me swimming with my cousin (a girl cousin)...she would just drop us off and pick us up later (public indoor pool)

I remember an old guy in the changeroom staring at two other younger boys there who were changing..I remember they were twins and were fighting to put on long johns with wet legs lol..the old guy then started to try and convince me I should take off my bathing shorts and shower because I could catch diseases from the chlorine

of course I had no idea what his motivations were at the time but man I wish I could remember his face now and beat the shit out of it

 

he may of been weird or following pool rules. Shower before and shower after the use of indoor swimming pools. Removes oils and such before going in. Gets pool germs off when coming out. Shower water is not pool water ..

 

he was simply an old pervert

 

thank you <3

but on my modelling page, i don't say that i do erotic pictures.

Like, there's boxes you tick, and I skipped erotic. Its not what i want

 

But the difference is if you think the guy is hot, he's just looking or he's checking you out.

If you think he's blehhhg, then he's a perv and being creepy

How old are you now? Your in your 20s arent you, you should try be more assertive with them now, being too submissive and running away, where is that going to get you? Are you going to turn down future opportunities cos the photographer might be pervy?

And in all areas of real life too, cos a lot of the time it isnt just direct, not just about being pervy, they'll do it on purpose also for a little power trip....and by you running away and / or crying ....they win, get to dominate and control you by thinking a couple steps ahead of you.


Be smart about it.


But in the end you are giving yourself away without realising it. One guy in recent times got pervy with you? What do you think that sounds like to the girls that get that everyday with pretty much every guy they meet?

 

There might be a secondary benefit to being submissive, fragile, and dainty...and that is, you get to be the prize. You are wanted, but whoever wants you isn`t good enough.

And then, you can complain to your friend-zone suck ups (examples of which appear to exist in this thread), and get more knee-jerk old-male-perv vs. cute-young-girl "sympathy."

And, like you said, eventually you might even fuck one of these pervs...the guy doesn`t even need to be hot. In fact, there`s a benefit to him being unattractive. A pity fuck might be more of an ego-boost to the attractive half of the relationship than might appear on the surface.

And then you`re also exempt from the "whore" label, since you don`t want their attention anyway, right? And the reason you do photoshoots is strickly business or art for art`s sake.

Caveat; I might be, and certainly am wrong. :biggrin:

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Edit: But, at any rate, the photographer probably gets off on rejection and denial...like most creeps, it seems. So, everybody wins with a minimum price paid for. Just a little bit of awkwardness.

 

What kind of modeling are you trying to get into ?

pervy photography really is the oldest trick in the book. The best thing you can do is find a cheap, reputable studio photographer to take some basic (no make up, no costumes) head shots and body shots. Thats all you really need for your portfolio. An agency wants to see your potential in pictures. They'll invest money for a more expansive portfolio once you're signed to them.

I used to think I was going to be the next Cindy Crawford. My friend's brother is in the modeling industry, and he sat me down and explained a couple of things to me 1)Don't trust the local photographer. 2)don't think you have to pay to start your career. If an agency wants you, they'll pay for everything.

all serious career advice aside.....ewwwww pervy photog!

best of luck to you