I Hate Being A Lesbian

What kind of relationships don't gays have? :toetap05:

Seriously, the thread is whack.

 

Not to the person who needed someone to say "change the music and get some air" because anyone can only let one of the great "get ya" things get them so much.
Op is in need of refreshment that comes from that realization of personal grace.
Suffering it can begin again after rest and laughter.

 

im not like that tho..i cant have sex without a romantic connection..i want love not just to bang...hard to believe it to u boys maybe i actually am not in it for the sex..i want everything else..sex would just be the cherry on top..and i prefer advice from girls anyway..

 

So, don't make it about sex, have half a dozen romantic connections

By the sounds of it you are not going to have a choice anyway

Again, its about whats really in their heads, not what you want. There simply aren't enough girls like you, they don't really expect you not to have half a dozen girlfriends, cos of everyone else want to keep it on the downlo anyway

What sucks now, will be awesome in 10 years

You prefer advice from girls? I'll point out the deadly silence....because no one else is supposed to know

 

im not like that tho..i cant have sex without a romantic connection..i want love not just to bang...hard to believe it to u boys maybe i actually am not in it for the sex..i want everything else..sex would just be the cherry on top..and i prefer advice from girls anyway..

 

i am so lost on what u just said or were trying to say .

 

How many times do I have to say it, don't include sex then, just romantic connections


....but you cant because YOU are always going to want to have sex

So you don't hate being a lesbian, you love it, you love being turned on by girls. What you hate is that you think too much about sex, too much supposedly like all boys think, all the girls know this, they know its always going to end up with sex with you, and they'll walk all over you because of it

 

im not a girl but ive always wanted a lesbian friend. just feel like they would have such good insights.

 

I'm a guy and I feel misunderstood a lot because that's what I'm looking for in life. A relationship, friendship, companionship. People even go so far as to make fun of me for having those kinds of emotions. I could care less about ripping each others' clothes off and having happy no no fun time... though, it might be nice lol. I just get really anxious in those types of situations due to traumatic experiences of the past. I've been single for a long time because of it, but somehow, I just keep an optimistic attitude. I wish I knew how I do it so I could share with others the feeling of confidence and hope I have for the future.

Perhaps it stems from my experience with bipolar disorder? When I get low (mood-wise) I get really, really low... but I've come to realise, that to every low point, there's always a high point around the corner somewhere waiting to be found. I've started experimenting with a sort of 'inflated sense of confidence' if that makes sense. Kind of a 'fake it 'till you make it' sort of deal. Basically brainwashing myself into having confidence that may or may not reside within myself. It seems to be working, but some times are easier to apply this strategy than others.

Anyways... I'm not a lesbian (or at least I don't have the body parts to be one ) but I do hope you find what you're looking for, and I'm sure you will if you keep searching and try to maintain a positive attitude! Life has a strange way of figuring things out for itself and making things happen, placing opportunities in your path, the ones you've been searching for. You've just gotta be quick! Notice it, take hold and go along for the ride, and if it doesn't work out... oh well, there'll be another. People say life is short, but we've got plenty of time to find what we're looking for in it. We've made it this far right?

 

lol thanks dude.that was a kool positive inspiring post

 

Hey lostluvr~
We all have things we don't like, As for myself I don't like being poor as a church mouse! Yours is how your life is going, That sounds like Eric my nephew because he's going threw the same thing~ Damn Relationships
Remember it's your life, Everything will fall into place on it's own should it be your destiny
Your gonna be fine and she's looking for you!!!!!

 

I don't like warm tomato. Cold is fine, like in a cold salad but once it warms up urgggh. Just no thx.

 

To the starting post:

little advice on when you feel like commiting suicide:
don't jump, a gun, pills, a noose, or any other crap;
just pick up a knife and slowly(slowly) shove it into your heart.
at least pick a hard way out at the end.

 

That's a pretty shitty fucking thing to say.

 

Tell me about it.

Toaster in the bathtub was completely overlooked.

 

yeah well worst thing about being nice is that
1st you're lying
2nd not your problem
3rd i deal with it more often than them and never complain

 

I don't think everyone is lying when they are being nice. I certainly am not and I try to be nice to everyone. And other peoples problems aren't my problem but that doesn't mean that I shouldn't try to help them if I can. I have no idea what you mean by #3 because unless you personally know "them" pretty well....it's just kind an assumption to say that.

 

This got too long for the Introduction section so I moved it here to Random Thoughts.

 

This is excellent and very wise advice.

If you are concerned about your drinking, there is a book written by a man named "Alan Carr". The book is called "Alan Carr's Easy Way to Control Drinking". He also wrote another one called "Alan Carr"S Easy way to Stop Smoking". My whole family was able to quit smoking after reading the book, and the drinking one is full of excellent wisdom and may help you get your drinking under control.

Having blackouts while drinking is very serious and is not something that should be ignored, so if you think you have a problem and are experiencing lots of blackouts after drinking, then I encourage you to get help.

 

I've always wanted a gay friend. They can be hard to find though, as gay men really have nothing in common with me. Sigh.