i hate it when my husband is here

ACK!!! Bad Advice... Don't listen to him... he's not worth it!!!!

 

JESUS FUCKING CHRIST WOMAN!

Just leave the dude already.





And you know that thing you wrote to me about the other day that I didn't respond to but meant to but now can't cause I deleted it and don't remember exactly what it said, as my brain has a hard time with the short term memory thing cause of the excessive drinking? Sounds good, do it.

 

I think you need to make a final decision Trish. Either you love him and decide to make it work permenantly or you decide he is a bad habit you want to break permenantly. I havnt been round here for a while but Ive been around these past 5 years and I think its time to decide what you are gona do with him. No one else can make that decison for you.

 

and u wanted me to stay with u...why?
I don't need anymore yelling

 

ever seen the movie 'Sideways'? "He walks in and I'm on the floor with my dick in his wifes ass" <---now that's some funny shit.

 

I used to be a yeller too. My husband wouldn't even talk to me if I yelled which used to piss me off more. I saw what the yelling was doing and realized I could accomplish a lot more with him if I talked.

It's been a good learning experience for me. So yes...I agree with you. People can change if they really want to.

That sucks Interval that he yells. Do you feed into his anger when he's yelling or do you ignore him till he calms down? There are lots of ways to deal with his anger. Has he ever tried looking at what's really upsetting him? (underlying issues?)

 

Damn, I'm glad I ain't married anymore!!!

 

so does this mean our Tuesday ceremony is off?

 

I told you before, dear, I would make an exception with you.

 

Can we have pork and beans at our reception cause those are my fav...

 

You can have whatever you want any way you want it.

 

LOL! Yeah, I know what you mean.

 

now thats what i like to hear...

 

*Smooch!*

 

Oh Shroomy, can I be in your wedding? Pretty, pretty please? With sugar on top?

 

I love Sideways, that's such a good movie

 

That's not always good advice thought. Sometimes if you ignore a yeller it pisses them off more and things turn physical, especially with men, they get really weird when you ignore them

 

dave's on his way home today!!! YAY!!! he'll make it all better. i miss him.

and i don't acknowledge yelling, either. i come from a whole house of screaming ragers and i refuse to dignify it. even when i'm furious, i'm incapable of yelling. perhaps i should learn how. it would probably be good for my blood pressure. but i pr3efer to talk.

 

What if we are already weird?

 

let me rephrase that-weird=good violent and insecure=not good boyfriend material