breakin up with girls is nothing to be upset about in 4 months you wont give two shits about this whole ordeal and as for your friends not talkin... did you ignore them for yer girl? if you did... it's gonna take a while to regain their trust but they will eventually come around... I've got a friend that wont talk to me cause of his girl... it's a mean fuckin thing to do... but once he dumps her (it's for his own good) i'm gonna forgive him for bein a dick... it'll be awkward at first but friends make it through. anyway man.. I hope things all work out... they usually do