I know the feeling. My wife much the same way, only a few mfm threesomes, mostly other couples. Me being better than average on the thick side one guy, didn't like the fact His dick wasn't bigger than mine, and lost all interest in being with my wife.
Currently, I’m 5.5 to 5.75 inches when erect. Circumference is 5.5 inches or more when erect. when I was a young guy, I was a solid 6 inches. I guess things shrink with age….idk flaccid I’m an inch or two. I’ve always hated being a “grower”.
I get more embarrassment from my babysized flaccid than my very small erect size. I am a grower but twice the size means I am only a skinny 4". My tiny flaccid size is what is more exposed in public though ( urinals, changerooms, et al)
I so agree! While I do wish I had a “shower”, I guess I’ve tried to embrace what I have. I love being in nude social settings. (Of course, due to the surroundings, it’s not always in its smallest form…lol)
He has given you permission to shop around, do you think you ever will? Will it be a threesome or you and a lover?
I have lost count of the number of times I have been outmanned when crossing paths in changing rooms/showers at a sports club/fitness/leisure centre or public urinals with guys from my social sphere, workplace, etc etc. . Too often it has resulted in me becoming the brunt of gossip mills and doesnt exactly make me enticing to the females as a sex hook up. I have just recalled my break up with my first steady gf. My lack of size and accompanying satisfaction factor led her to play away. I found out about it through her younger sister. My gf had hooked up with her sister's ex. She had already been embarrassed by her lil sis when she bragged that her bf had a much bigger cock. We had crossed paths in a changeroom and his swinging dick dwarfed my tiny todger.
I found nude beaches/club to be very helpful as far as self esteem. It was very liberating to not hide a dick behind clothing. Probably the best was a gal at the nude part of a resort whose husband kept his cock covered with a towel most of the time. She was not inhibited at all and flirtatious! I made sure to keep my legs apart and turn to her to give her a good view. (Yeah…my little guy probably wasn’t at his smallest…lol!) Her attention made me feel like a million bucks.
We’re similar ages…I’m just a bit older. My wife was a virgin until marriage. I’ve always wondered how much she would enjoy getting pounded by a really big cock. She says my size is great and bigger would be uncomfortable. Still, if I could snap my fingers and be 7 or 8 inches hard….
We were in the lifestyle for years, I never got a complaint about my size, My wife had a variety of sizes, only a few she said were too large, but she took them, but is alway happy with average ones.