I have never been single.

Hahaha...

That's awesome you and John meeting and all and being so happy


Btw... and this has NOTHING to do with you, autentique, but I get so tired of certain people assuming because I've always been in relationships that that is somehow bad or wrong or whatever....

People need to judge themselves before they judge other people....

 

Thank you!

Personally, the people I know that have ALWAYS been in a relationship, have always been in one, because they're afraid to be alone. Something they have been able to admit to themselves at times. I'm not saying you're like that, because I barely know you, but I think that could be the reason why people assume is bad or wrong.
For me is hard to understand always being in a relationship, especially when I was younger,, but that's just because that's not what I did.

 

Interesting. I wonder how I'd do in a long commitment. Probably take breaks, while remaining emotionally available if that makes sense.

I would also probably need an apartment to retreat to.

 

Well a lot of it is because I've been in LONG relationships... I mean... Brian, my first love... we were together from the time I was 15 to when I was 18 or 19... he had been my best friend since I was six years old also... so there goes a big chunk of time... but yeah I loved him more then life itself (he killed himself six months after his family moved seven hours away)...

But yeah... I'm not afraid to be alone at all....

 

My husband and I give each other a certain amount of freedom while remaining close...

Oh! I was talking the other day about how I want my own apt. too... just for the ME space. Haha.

 

See. I need someone who understands THAT. Otherwise, no marrriage for me.

 

I might break up with my girlfriend since she has a list of 47 things she needs in a new apartment

so freaking annoying

 

LOL! Man, that's high-maintenance. Literally.

 

Is a ceiling on there? Tell her she needs 48.

 

Are you ready?
For the...sobby story?

Met this girl, really liked her, liked everything about her. Her looks, the way she thinks, the way she walks, the way she looks at me, her taste in music, that look in her eyes...

And my Best friend stole her!!!

Happily ever after, huh?

 

Awwww that sucks song.... :hug:

Gary...what kinda things? I think in a new apt... (i wanna move soon), I need a yard and um... a bath tub (we once looked at this wonderful place except it only had a shower so it was a no go)...and ummm.... a bigger kitchen...that is it.

 

ok this place has 2 bedrooms, 2 balconies, 2 living rooms, is in the area we want, is a good price, is well kept up, has a storage area with washer and dryer in the basement

she thinks is a huge deal how you go outside and downstairs to get to the washer and dryer

so ridiculous

now we are in a fight

she gets just like her mom regarding issues like these and it gets on my nerves so much

 

2 balconies?

I dont suppose you want to adopt me do you?

 

Does it never freak you out to think like... what would happen if someday you actually ended up being single and then having to figure out how to live your life just by yourself? If that makes sense.

I don't think I could jump from one relationship to another but then I've never been in a situation where it's felt comfortable enough. Starting a relationship is hard work..

I was in a relationship from 16 to 19 and then had a gap of singledom (well, sort of... but long story) until I met my fiance in 2006. I've dated people but I was never very good at actually being with someone until I guess now. But now I'm rambling... Anyhow...

Do you ever feel like you've missed out or are you happier in relationships Lucky?

 

If you do break up with her, can I move in with you??

 

I don't give guys a chance anymore. haha I've been on tons of dates but I don't let it go any further. How bad is that? My best friend told my mom to give up on grandchildren because I will die alone. :lol:

 

I was thinking 2 living rooms! :stunned:

Ehhh first of all...until I got married I never lived with any of the boyfriends...well, except one.... I had my own apartments and took care of things by myself... I've gone to school, worked, had and have my own friends and my own life...

In fact I STILL feel like I have my own life.

In a way I do feel I've missed out on getting to experience being single though....

But I think I am happier in relationships.... like having someone to love. (but i dont feel i NEED it)

 

I hate it when my inlaws talk about grandkids...

Cause I mean... it's not like we haven't tried to have kids =((

Anyways guys suck... seriously. If I ever get divorced I would never be in another relationship again... well, unless it's with one certain person but there's no chance of that anyways....
(and yes, i know it sounds like a contradiction but it's hard to explain, I HAVE been happier in relationships but being married and all and really ive lived with my husband since 2000... well, if it doesn't work... i just don't need to do it again....)

 

I don't want marriage or kids.

 

I want kids more then anything in this world.