I Have No Friends

Probly is, when I am trippin hard, I cannot read the screen... food for thought...


OP: What was your question? You are just lonely...?
All I have to say is: I have went through periods of having lots of friends, hanging out all the time, always partying. And I have been through times of total seclusion... I think I have found some balance and learned a little something.
I keep a few close contacts, a few other people around. One group of people I like to hang out with and one friend. See, I know a lot of people, have the opportunity to go party all the time... but, that shit sucks, I prefer to be more a lone. Things are easier, to say the least.

"Mellow is the man who knows what he's been missing"

 

i always had "outcast" friends until sophomore year. freshman year i was in a preppy school and even being fairly attractive didn't gain me any friends. when i switched schools i slipped into the same lonely little no friends niche, then i met miss mary jane, and the smokers outside. at least i had acquaintances, but few real friends.

and investing in friendships is a risk. our 'group' used to be close knit, i always felt like an outsider but at least i was included. now one of our friends has been taken over by female wiles (they are getting married, we may never see our friend again) one is taken over by a crazy bitch with 3 preexisting kids, who "whoops" and got pregnant. they just had their baby, and we havent seen our buddy alone in 8 months. shes ALWAYS with him. when i was preggo i let my hubby got hang out, and have a good time! whatever.
one of our other 'friends' got a bitch he hated pregnant, twice. usually homeless, jobless, in motels, not the most intelligent pair.

and that, among other reasons, is why my friends are online, like you fine folks here.
and i have secondlife too. secondlife is the life i never had. unfortunately i have stage fright even when people can't see me, so i want to sing but can't bring myself to do it.

 

I have no friends either, I stay in my house everyday I only go out to the store or over to my sister house or my dads. Last year I did visit my other sister in grand rapids. But that’s it. I have people on myspace, but I never hang out with them

 

This thread is really sad...

 

That isn't very constructive....

 

why? cuz you have more friends than the rest of the people in this thread.. wow.. u so cool.. the amount of friends one has has nothing to do with how sad ones life is.. personally i find little use for having a bunch of friends.. i prefer to be a loner.. lived most of my life this way.. and will continue to do so.. and im not sad

 

Jokerman, youre always so hasty. Calm down. I like you though.

I do like my seclusion. But I also like my close friends I had in Texas. I can live with seclusion, an you guys are helping me realize how it can be fine. When I go to school high, it's AMAZING! I start smiling walking down the hallways because of all the funny teenage shit. And I'll talk to myself a ton in my head.
Sometimes it just sucks(not high) when you come homeand your jaw is sore from having it closed for hours.
Plus those nights when you have NOTHING to do.

 

A good defense is the best offense

 

Why do you feel the need to associate yourself with the mundane populous? Don't worry about it, if you're not making connections with these people fuck-it.

Like minds will be drawn together, just wait it out.

I've probably only had about 10 real friends my whole life, because generally I don't enjoy peoples company it takes a certain amount of intelligence, uniqueness and crazy for me to enjoy ones company.

Take this time you have alone to explore and build yourself.

 

And besides, the more the people there are that congergate, the more drama and back stabbing that will take place.
Simple.

 

More money more problems.. the same hold true for friends..

 

That's why all my friends are poor communists.

 

poor socialists would be better.. cuz at least what there is of the wealth would be spread around equally..

 

lol, well thanks for correcting. Actually we are all socialists. I just say communist because most people get confused with anything else.

 

Drugs are one of my best friends. When I fall on hard times or I am feeling my worst... drugs are there for me. When I am at my best, and feeling like I'm on top of the world, yep, you guessed it... drugs are there.
Drugs are there for me through thick and thin, and I usuall know what to expect from them. They don't play games and the rules and consequences are prett cut and dry.
To think about it, drugs are a damned good friend.

This one is for you, multiple substances.

:cheers2:

 

Drugs are more like hookers.. not friends.. cuz you gotta pay for their time spent with you

 

Very cheap hookers, indeed.
But, don't you spend on your friends, too?
Shit, drugs have even made me money.....

 

i'm often too poor to spend on friends..

 

Fine, you are not friends with drugs, they don't like you anyway.

 

I said no to drugs. but they ignant.. and dont listen