I have no idea what to do...

shit... well i mean. for starters. she was the one who came up to me to hang out and after the first night was talking about how im so cute and how she likes me or what ever. which is great. except after a few weeks and me asking her out she says she cant and she just wants to be best friends. she doesnt leave it like something could happen. like she sort of did but not really... she tried to convince me that it wont work. idk

hah dude... trust me i cant look for something better. though all of my friends tell me i deserve better..... theres just to much stuff about her that i just LIKE for no reason. just little things... lots of them.

the only "better" think im looking for is maturity/ ability to be in a relationship... i mean idk. i have no idea how legitimately MATURE she is. i cant tell because i already said it seems like she does shit just to look mature...

believe me. ive done enough brooding. hah i didnt sit her down to talk but i was talking to her the other night after she left my party and told he how i feel and shit. i told her that i cant just be friends it wont work because theres nothing there. and it just makes me feel like shit because i like her and she doesnt like me (supposedly)

and yes to the last part....

 

that is kind of a huge part of a relationship man...the ability to NOT be in one is obviously going to kill any chance of you having a relationship with her.

you and me both are attracted to this idea of this girl...not the actual girl herself

 

yeah i know... idk. i mean. i know shes had serious realtionships. thats what her last one was. so idk. i cant tell if shes a whore or not!!! i guess maybe like other dude said shes just a person..

she can hold down a relationship i guess but for some reason doesnt think she can with me/ when we go off to college. but yet that doesnt mean she doesnt like me, but yet she says were best friends and were not even fucking friends. i wont let myself get dragged into the friend zone lol..

and idk what you mean by the girl herself. lol... im pretty sure im attracted to her yes, AND the idea of what could happen....

 

i think you're just gonna have to wait and see how it plays out yourself

dont get too caught up in her man, you'll just be hurting yourself

 

Would you be content to be one of many relationships?

 

yeah i have been waiting. unfortunatley.

i know, i have been caught up in her im not gonna get that into it anymore but still try i guess...

she told me i am her best friend, her best buy friend and i dont understand how much that means to her.

which i think is bs... and i said you dont understand how much i dont WANT to be just your friend. and then i called bull shit cause she doesnt even talk to me unless i talk to her first.

idk what to say. i guess just what ever feels right...

 

The truth always provides the best fit for ourselves.

 

what do you mean? with different people? not really... i just want one good one, lol...

 

yeah either that or to much info for her to fucking play with me with...

 

sounds like you should let her go man, for real

i'm in the same boat as you are and it fucking sucks...i haven't felt this crushed in years, but you have to move on to protect your dignity and sanity

 

holy hell. that sit down and talk thing is happening right now. through texts. idk. this is like the moment of truth of move on or hold on...

deep shit. idk.

 

same shit happened with me man...its fuckin gay

 

believe me i feel you... this is just ridiculous though....
idk how she feels about what im saying. shes thinking im still gonna act like i do cause she thinks she knows me. hah. what she DOESNT know is im sick of her bull shit lol. i told her that too. she doesnt think ill do it though...

lol and after she said i know you i said yeah you know me realllll well... thats a good one...

she doesnt know shit about me. all the times she talks to me its her telling me about herself...

 

more reasoning as to why you dont want a relationship with this girl


lifes a bitch man. and then you die.

go listen to some atmosphere and feel sorry for yourself. it helps haha

 

hahaha i know it is... idk. im sure its not that bad... she just doesnt know what to talk about maybe? as she says... so she just talks about her self lol...

and yeah. and no, when i was more depressed i was more into some Z-ro... that shits good if you wanna feel sorry for yourself... im done with that hopefully...

 

haha i dont feel sorry for myself...but i dont feel too positive about things in my life.

you know...if you think you can work things out with this girl you should go for it, but i still think you shouldnt put all your chips on one hand if you know what i mean

 

haha yeah i know that doesnt sound right, but just depressed shit z ro = it...

believe me ive had plenty of times where im just like FML ever since i started talking to her. i was fine before she came into my life lmao... she had to go and fuck everything up lol...

and yeah. im trying to work shit out idk how she stll isnt interested or maybe she is but doesnt show it i cant tell. i wish i could read her mind. i would be forever thankful. haha

im deff not putting all my eggs in one basket! i might not even talk to her. i told her im done talking. (im pretty sure i already said that on this thread?)

she can talk to ME if shes interested but besides that no...

 

good luck my dude

 

UPDATE: well after the little talk we had a few days ago about me saying i cant just be friends and dont want to and that she will have to start talking to me cause im done screwing around....
i havent talked to her in 3 days...

she just texted me a bit ago wanting to take me out somewhere... so yeah. crazy? idk. im hoping that she doesnt just wanna go out as "friends" lol... but she said ill love it so idk why she would be worried about me loving it if she was just taking me there as a friend... tomorrow night it is i guess.

 

Sometimes friends like to do nice things for other friends. You're reading to much into it.