Hey Dizzy~~ I'll be right over... Argghh blonde~~~why can't guys be more forward?? haha I'm soo shy, it takes a lot for me to make a first move (usually doesn't happen unless I've got a couple drinks in me ) And thanks for all the positivity guys You're helping my bruised ego haha... I can't wait to find that perfect person to a share a kiss with... by that time I'm going to have so much passion bottled up inside me~~I can't wait for a release... Okay perfect scenario~~ Laying out in the woods with the wind lightly blowing the trees around us and (me and whoever the heck my future love may be) just enjoying each other's presence and desire and getting lost in each kiss and touch... ahhhhh...I need love!!
ihmurria gave the most excellent advice, you could just ask one of your friends if they want to kiss, but go no further... like a make-out buddy. those are fun.
Alas, it's only effective if you have male friends you find attractive. I don't really have any male friends right now who are single, let alone attractive to me (people rarely move out of the friend box into the attractive box for me). Grr, need more attractive male friends.
yeah, that's my problem.... I have like two close male friends right now and I find them the opposite of attractive haha, I would never want to do something like that with them, it would feel way too weird anyways
just go out and makeout with somone you find interesting theres nothing wrong with that if your single kissings fun and you get your rocks off without having to give your body to someone.
I know I am going to get lynched for this, but I'm going to put it out there anyway only because I think it will help you quite a bit, Amber. I want everyone to understand that this is just my opinion, and I understand that my point of view may not be the right for view for everyone, or even anyone. Be that as it may, I still think that if you changed your style you would find alot more men, and more attractive men, coming on to you. Your hair, makeup (or lack thereof) and wardrobe should all be revamped immediately, and I promise if you find the right girl to help you change this, you'll never go back to the hippy style you have now because your love life will improve 1000 times over. Beauty is not something you are, but something you possess, and like any possesion it can easily be hidden leaving you to believe it doesn't exist. Let the flames begin.
You are dogshit. How dare you tell someone they need to change themselves to suit someone? You have some pretty fucked up notions about life for someone possessing a modecum of intelligence. You're really in the wrong place. Please move along.
alright well the type of men I would I attract if I changed my hippy ways are the sort that I tend to look down on.... so all those girls that makes themselves up can have em... I'd rather hold out for a real man who can appreciate a natural woman.
Amber, I wasn't trying to disrespect you or your values/beliefs by giving my own opinion. I just think that a person's values aren't determined by the clothes they wear or the shoes or hair or any other aspect of their physical being. I don't think it is shallow for placing value on material possesions, any more so than it is shallow to place value on intelligence, or running water, or life itself since all these are simply gifts from god, and none are any more or less important than the other. So if, by dressing more stylish you could get an attractive, smart and good man to give you a chance, I don't see why not. What if one of your male friends who you don't find attractive had a deep crsuh on you, and one day he turned up at your local bar/club whatever, and he dressed different, cleaned up, lost weight, just looked better and suddenly you were attracted to him and you fell in love. Does that make you a bad person for not seeing his beauty before he changed? No, of course not. But it is your life, and these are just my views. You are pretty regardless of how you dress and I wish you the best. As for you Zoomie, it is my understanding that the hippie culture promotes tolerance and different viewpoints, which you certainly do not. Grow up old man, before time passes you by and you realize you've been stuck with the same outlook your whole life and you die before get the chance see things from more than one perspective.
Gentle child, you still have it wrong. You're running around on these boards telling people what to do, what they think is wrong and what human nature is. That is intolerable. I may be old, but I claim to be an expert at absolutely nothing. I hope that's something you'll learn someday.
Amber- All I have to say is good for you for holding out and looking for someone that is worth it. I just hope you have the patience for it. I had to wait a good two years for that special person. Good luck!
Spare me the bluster old man, your such an intolerable imbecile that all I can do is sit back and laugh when you try to match wits with me or stand up to me intellectually. Face the facts: Your a pathetic fool who after 42 years has accomplished nothing in life, and the prospects of you ever achieving anything are slim to none. I'm a 20 year old Ivy League student getting ready to take over his family's chain of tanning salons running up and down the East Coast after I graduate next year, a man whose future is decidely very sunny. So all I can do is smile when you think you're getting to me or even one upping me, because you and I both know what's really going on here
Yes, now we all do. You don't know me, you don't know me to judge me, so you really don't know what you're talking about. OTOH you've just shown EVERYONE what you are: A capitalist asshole who trades skin cancer for cash. No, wait, I'm sorry, that's not correct. You're a capitalist asshole who trades skin cancer for cash FROM A FAMILY OF CAPITALIST ASSHOLES WHO TRADE SKIN CANCER FOR CASH. Good luck with that.
haha nice one zoomie amber don't change your style, you look ... well lets just say if you was in the uk i'd be after one of those kisses
You live in Maryland. Do you pay taxes? Then you are a Capitalist supporter, and therefore you are a Capitalist, regardless of any anti-Capitalist rhetoric you may espouse. Do you drive a car? If so, then you add to the leading cause of cancer in world, air pollution cause by the burning of fossil fuels. Do you smoke or drink? Then you support those who cause cancer and death. Where were your clothes made? A country where labor laws allow for slave labor with minimal wages for ludricrous hours a day and no child labor laws? Even if your clothes aren't chances are you have purchased a product, likely very many such products, and you are a slave driver. My point is, you support the same system and actions that I support. The difference between you and I, however, is that while you go on ideological rants on how much of an asshole I am for supporting this system, I acknowledge my actions. You are a self deluded hypocrite, in addition to be a dishonest asshole who is such a liar that he is convinced of his own lies (aka pathological). I am an honest asshole, who admits his flaws of character. Now I have a question Zoomie. How does it feel to get served, over and over again?
I don't smoke, rarely drink, don't own an automobile. Yes, I am gainfully employed, but haven't filed taxes in a number of years because I choose not to participate. I pay sales tax sometimes but I could avoid that by simply hopping over to Deleware. The woman bought me some new boots last year, but 90% of everything I own, use and wear is recycled. I recycle, freecycle and buy clothing at thrift stores. I dont't need the trappings of modern life BECAUSE I'M A HIPPIE YOU IDIOT!!! You obviously measure your worth by the amount of green pieces of paper you can stack up. I measure my worth by my own happiness without them, and the things I can do to make others smile. But the most important difference is that I have something you will never have, at least not by the standards I hold, and the standards held by most people on these boards: FREEDOM!!! Please explain. I would love to know exactly how you came to this conclusion. I let you know if it happens. Amber, Sorry again for hijacking your thread.
I assume you still live in a home where you pay for heat, running water and electricty, so you are still a hypocrite since you support these facets of our Capitalist Economy. You are an even bigger hypocrite than I thought because you enjoy the advantages of a capitalist society afforded to you by those who do their civic duty (such as my family and myself), without contributing your fair share. Why don't you and you parasitic bretheren do what any self respecting idealist does when they disagree with founding principles of the society the live in, and go off to start your own? The reason is because you, Zoomie, are a coward who is too afraid to leave the comforts of a Capitalist nation and truly live up to your ideals and moral convictions. I can take comfort, however, in my faith in the Internal Revenue Service, who will no doubt be informed by one of the many goverment lapdogs who follow the posts on these forums of your deviant tax practices. Sleep well, Zoomie, prison is a lonely place for such a peaceful man as yourself!
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