'I like older guys'

Because my original post was social commentary. I only started talking about relationships later. As I said, this has never affected my relationships directly.

And as for the rest... whatever. I happen to have met a few who do indeed want more than free drinks and sex.

 

They might just be saying that to make you jealous. Have you ever had the feeling that whenever women gather around men, they will be singing praises for types of men that are not there with them?

 

These are people I know well. They're not just saying that.

And yes, I have had that feeling. Those are the girls I don't bother with.

 

That's cool. There's a lot of girls who will say that and then turn to me and say I'm too old. Rejection is, sometimes, just a self-elevation technique.

 

yeah thats called a player, just like men can be. Id balance it out but i do believe that men overpower women in the "player" area.

I know a lot of confused girls- that say they want a relationship but sex would be better and a lot of straight on girls.

Some or a lot of girls go to older because IMO i think they think that they have been through a lot more than a guy their age, and WANT to get serious other than a lot of teen guys.

Then again, everyone is different too. I wouldnt base it on age all the time. Me being almost out of my teen years, naturally wanna still have fun but have fun with a boyfriend.

booty calls can only be so much until you get tired and want just one person to really care about you.

 

I agree completely.

 

Mmm, I have nothing against men my age. It would be delusional for me to beleive that men my age aren't mature and experienced in the bedroom ( some of course are not). I don't just like men who are older I look for someone wise and who generally has alot of information to share and stories(alot of older men are immature and moronic). That said, i'm not sure why an older man would want to date a younger woman unless she was mature enough to handle it and wasn't dwelling on the drama like so many woman my age do. Some men just get off on younger woman, same goes for younger woman for older men. I just normally find myself more attracted to men who are older because usually (in my city anyways) they tend to be more mature and know what they want in life. I'm not sure if you would still categorize me into this group of immature women but frankly darling I don't give a damn.


Peace

 

haha i think this thread is amazing

i have been with an older man, and i have dated guys around my age, but i on the other hand have a tendency to be attracted to younger guys...idk what it is...and no i havent done anything illegall, but its still that way its fuckn idk what it is, but its true haha

 

They could be anywhere from like.....18 to 81. I'm not kidding. Roland Micklem is sexy...he's 81 and on a hunger strike protesting to save the Apalachian Mountains that's so sexy. MMM ya.

http://twilightearth.com/environmen...land-micklem-writes-statement-from-jail-cell/

 

Nope. You sound pretty reasonable.

EDIT: Wow, that text colour is an eyesore against the quote box

 

When I was younger, 18 and 17 I always dated guys a ton older than me by like 20 years, I never fit in with people my age, I was already planning my life while others were drinking and partying. But I learned quickly those men only wanted bc I was young not bc I was mature, and not bc they were, I am so much happier with a mature guy my age (23) , but sometimes it is hard to find someone who does want to sit at home and play with my kids. Or someone that is ready to help out with late night nightmares by my toddler. I guess, I have learned age isnt much to me, I have dated immature older guys and really mature older guys, but it never worked out. I guess waiting I found someone mature enough my age. I am not saying it wont work out for those in big age gap relationships, but I give guys my age more credit now and the benefit of the doubt. and very glad I did

 

i like older men for sex or relationships or both, younger men are okay... i find that on the average though i am more compatible intellectually and spiritually with older

 

i would like to point out that I am an ''older man''

 

lol, shouldnt you have added 'and single'??

 

and single....and norml

 

I would also like to point out that I'm an older man. Unfortunately-ridiculously older.

 

I would like to point out that i'm 19 and have a crush on an 81 year old man named Roland Micklem....

Thanks

 

I would like to point out that having a crush on some old dude you don't know at all is kind of weird. Just sayin'

 

i'm pointing

 

I'm not pointing, it's impolite,,, but I'm older as well, just not ridiculously so,,, at least thats what I'll keep telling myself. :cheers2:

P.S. Wild_Flowers, could you change that SigPic, it makes me wish I had some weed to smoke,,, aaand,,, I dont...