Love going down on ladies, they enjoy it so much plus I kinda get off to it. Especially when the lady has the energy to cum again and again. Also bringing ice into the picture is a treat as well, shite im gonna work myself up.
Men practicing tantric sex believe that they are drinking the psychic energy of the woman when they perform oral sex on her. They then use that energy in their meditative sex. And they don't return the energy to the woman through ejaculation. So, it's almost a form of vampirism. That's why I try always to be careful to return the energy back to the woman. And it does seem to work out in terms of quantity. For example, if I eat her til she cums one time, then we have sex until we both cum, my orgasm would be better than if we'd gone right into the sex. But if I eat her til she cums 8 times and then we sex until we both cum, my orgasm will be that much better than if she had just cum once by oral.
pfffffle on wax and bare. and I know this from BOTH sides of the activity (so there, nyah ;P ) on Tantra, there's a strong swell of mutuality in Tantric practice in the West. I make sure to complete the energy circuit with my hand on his heart, and even the partner that really doesn't get what I doing follows my lead. My Tantric partner is right there with it, and he hums softly at that point, as it that drives the energy around. With the non-Tantric partner, I do a lot of energy moving myself, but he seems to be noticing, and responding. I don't want to overdo my whitelightgirl tendencies with him, so I'm slowly easing him into this.
I agree. Not enough guys go down on their girls, it's a crime really, but almost ALL guys expect women to suck their dick. It's a really egocentric chauvinist mentality that some men seem to still have even in 2009. Women take longer on average to stimulate than guys, that is a fact. Eating a woman's pussy is necessary if you want to to enjoy maximum benefit. Personally I don't like it when I receive oral. BJ's don't really do it for me in all honesty. I don't usually cum from head, and I have had my dick sucked by a few different women, and nothing worked. I have came from getting really good head but it takes me a while, and the woman winds up lock jawed. I would rather just go straight to the pussy or ass. But I love to eat my girl's pussy AND her ass. I love rimming her ass, it just feels kinky having that springy sphincter muscle around my tongue, it feels cool. I love eating my girls pussy and ass, I'm guilty. She doesn't go down on me because it's not my thing. My thing is anal. I love anal. Vaginal and anal are all I need, BJ's are not that stimulating to me, they feel great but they don't push me to orgasm like vaginal and anal do.
Good advice. Especially telling her to direct you at least the first time. She will know where she wants you to go. May I also add to cover your teeth with your lips and work your tongue on her urethra and clit. Toothy blowjobs are not pleasant, do the same for her. I love the previous post about "owning her" afterward. So true, it is a huge turn on for both for her to have huge orgasms and know that you have that power to do it to her.
Standing seated: "whitelightgirl tendencies" is my joking way of referring to my less than traditional spiritual worldview. I'm Jewish with a view that the universe (or g-d) is impersonal and we are far more responsible for our own well being than personal g-d theorists believe they are. See the thread in philo/religion "an atheist and a whitelightgirl fall into bed" for why I'm being slow with this man.
i love slopping at a girls snatch. gettin it all wet an juicy. i've honestly made women squirt with just finger and tongue. by far my favorite thing to do to a women. i love the taste of a wet sticky pussy