I need a guy's advice

this,,:2thumbsup:

 

Hey girl,
These people are being a little rough on you. You clearly feel bad, and did something unusual an out of ur regular conduct....regardless of your level of drunkeness...

Have you been very horny without him around? If so, have you been watching porn?

It is very likely, from a psycological point of view, that you have lacked self gratification attained from male attention, which sadly, most women get part of thier "self love" from. Being loved, or idealized by others makes women often loves themselves... Its unhealty, its wrong, it suggest there may be an underlying issue....BUT.... We all do it at some point in our lives.... Hence why 18 yr olds dress and act like slut and LOVE the attention!(negotive or positive)...

The question is, do you love him? If so, then you may not love yourself enough to be in a healthy loving relationship. You may need to deal with wtv underlying issue has made you act this way. The gratification you usually get from your bfs attention, was probably lacking, but the question is, why do you need it?

Also...Coming hope from war is hard enough as it is.... Solders feel post traumatic stress at various levels (not always at extreme levels where it becomes a "disorder")... I think when he comes back he needs his family, and the woman he loves by his side... That is not the time to drop a "baby I cheated" BOMB on him.

The best thing to do is learn from this, and get help... And understand why you acted like a little slut.

The other guys wont tell him, if they do, you can cross that bridge when you get there.

 

And make sure you didnt catch anything hun, just incase because that would be a really horrible way for him to find out.

 

Catch something from giving a few bjs one night... highly unlikely.

 

Don't tell him. He has enough on his mind. But don't go to that club again.

 

Fap fap fap...yawn...ah, what the heck...fap fap fap

 

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"he got me drunk, and I was too drunk to think clearly (so I blew everyone)" :rofl:

 

yeah, but it's still probably a good idea to get yourself tested every time you cheat on your significant other. cover all your bases and whatnot.

 

Yawn

Hasn't every girl got drunk and blown 10 guys at a time? What, no?? Oh, I forgot, this is the internet.

 

OP are you the same girl that got drunk had to blow some guy in front of your boyfriend because you lost at Beer Pong? Sounds awful familiar.