I pushed a girl over the edge.

i don't think that giving her an honest opinion is treating her badly. i am truly disgusted by her amusement. however, you are right, i don't think she'll actually learn anything. selfish people rarely do.

 

you know, you are right. there was no excuse for name-calling. for that i apologize. heat of the moment.

 

ok cool , oh, by the way, she can learn anything she wants
*hint hint*

 

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cherryiceangel....i really hope this is a joke, just to get a rise out of people or whatever it is that you want.

i mean, if this girl had to fake a disorder, she obviously has problems, serious ones. she probably didn't need someone to make her life more miserable. you need to learn to be more compassionate. dont be mean to enemies, or even people you just don't like. it doesn't help anyone. its not like u have to go out of your way, u could have just done nothing at all and it would have been better than what you did.

so truly, i hope this was all a hoax. because i have a lot of faith in people and hearing something like this, well, basically makes me want to cry.

peace and love

 

Actually talking about someone behind their back can be very harmful. You say it to someone, they repeat it to a couple other people (with a few added embellishments) who each repeat it to a couple other people, etc.

How about this: you say, "Can I ask you something? Do you really have some kind of mental condition, or are you just faking it? Because what you're doing is really annoying!" There, constructive criticism which gets right to the heart of the matter. You'd be doing that person a favor.

 

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In my school there was this girl with obvious problems(dissorders,cutting,etc...) and of course everyone would pick on her including my friends.WEll,anyway's dearing summer vacation me and the girl ended up working at the same store,and became friends ... probably because I was hiding my own depression and I was able to talk to her about stuff and vice versa,ya know? The only thing is I tend to look passed peoples problems and I see them for the good people that I WANT them to be.Well when school started of course everyone continued to pick on her until she punched and beat the hell outta of one of her biggest bully's with a bat.The bully ended up in the hospital half dead!That was the day I realized I wasn't as crazy as I thought I was ... that chick was insane but I totally thought she was cool at first.Now I'm more cautious of the friends I make.

 

Not really stoner. She acts like a respectable person: you're nice with her she's nice with you ; they're assholes with her, she got revenge.
Now you label her "insane" but she didn't take revenge on other people like psychos do... She's prolly a nice person but she have to deal with her personal problems and don't need people to push her buttons. It's not like she did wrong for money like many sane people do.

I'm no psychiatrist but it's more sane to hurt you ennemies (*OK*, she overreacted... So what ?) than yourself ( cuttings and all that shit). I mean, who knows, if she didn't deal with the problem now maybe later it would have worsened her psychological problems.
Harassment is enough for relatively normal people to become violent, so don't even bring other sources of stress in the mix.

Hell, it shouldn't even change your behavior toward her. Except maybe have a talk about how she got the bat idea, how long she was planning it... You know, a nice convo. What you're doing is just shallowness.

 

HUH?She beat the hell out this guy with a bat,dude! I wouldn't have tripped out as much if she would have just used her fist.I just don't think she had to take it that far,man!She was put in Jail and her family moved away,so I have no way of contacting her for a heart to heart convo.I don't think I was being shallow at all,I mean I was cool with her until she beat his ass with bat and put him in the hospital.Now he's not his normal self anymore and I'm sure with maturity he would have regretted ever being a bully but now he can't even remember shit. Bashing someones head with a bat puts her in the "insane" category for me.I am the least shallow person I know!

 

Its too bad the guy has brain damage, but he was playing with fire. You never know what lurks beneath the surface of a person, and if you think they are unstable, then constantly harrassing them isn't a wise choice at all.

You never know what someone has to deal with at home, or in other places you don't see. Harrassing them is not only cruel, but could bring about harm to yourself.

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Unlike the poster of this thread some of you have remorse, you feel shame, worse of yourself if you hurt others ... you are good people and I admire your devotion to trying to teach the "threader" the errors of her ways but its not for you to force your moral standards onto others we are all born good. Clean from graices, etiquet but concious, and as we grow are currupted by different sources that determin the levels of our perceptions of right and wrong however there are allways the few who ignore or dont simply understand the consequenses of their ways.

Fate and carma has nastey ways of combating evil let them do their jobs.

Peace and Love to you all ... yes all of you

 

your an evil fuck! sorry to say

 

How did I miss this thread before? Wow.

 

Haha, go necrothreading.

Anyway, I read it through. Bacchus probably has Antisocial Personality Disorder and is set on becoming Ubermensch.

Man, I feel like watching The Wall all of a sudden.

 

I read this through too, and i have to say if the OP is the kinda gal to have a prada bag then why touch the skunk (like someone previously said). Its one thing to think about dead animals and imagine doing this but its another to actually do it.

I hope that girl gets through alright...

 

Keep in mind, you crazy bitch, that this isn't your only life. All of the things you do will come back to you in time, all of that bad crap that happens to you is because of what you did before.

Keep in mind you should have been in jail for assaulting the poor girl, and you should have apologized, and you should feel terrible. *Shakes her head* I'm dissapointed. Obviously, you don't give a shit about anything, or about life itself, or what ever happens to you so I'll just shut up now until you learn your listen when you're in prison.

Maybe you should wake up and realize you're not queen of the world. Maybe you should wake up and realize you'd be a lot happier if you stopped fucking with people. Maybe YOU should take consideration that 1 out of 100 of America is in jail, and you're just one of the people adding to it. I'm really disgusted that she was in trouble, and you weren't.

I am disgusted, that people like you think this is okay.
I am disgusted, that I was the one counseling these kids who were suicidle because of people like YOU.
I am disgusted, that the kid I was counseling, dropped out of counseling because of people like YOU.

People who made fun of him for having mental issues people like YOU can't understand cause you're so fucking perfect.

I am even more disgusted, that the kid who dropped out of counseling, is the same kid who slit his fucking wrists and died because of people like YOU.

Maybe you should think about who you are as a person, maybe you should take control of your actions, maybe you should take the blame for your actions, and realize what kind of person you are.

 

I just don't think that she's had enough time to think over what she did.

 

That or she's just fucking stupid.

 

I only read the first post. the OP seems to be a spoiled, stupid bitch.

I really liked what seamonster said at the top of this page.