I really need advice guys

ThisIsExile · Jan 17, 2010

Dracunos said:

Every experience in life will have an affect on you. Your goal no matter the situation is to try and get the best things you possibly can out of every experience. At this point you need to weigh the potential negative consequences of doing more drugs against the potential gains and decide if it's the right thing to do.

Remember there's no 'right' way to live your life, and no 'right' or 'wrong' way to think, everyone is different, and the most it can last is a single lifetime, which really isn't that long.

But on the other hand.. Drugs are the few rare substances on this planet that can actually change and re-wire your brain temporarily, some believe even open doors, windows in the mind and the soul and etc etc. Basically they do a LOT of things in your brain, and there's no doubt that after tripping and even the comedown there is an afterglow from the trips that lasts a day after, sometimes longer. There's absolutely no guarantees with any drugs or any one individual. You can honestly be one of the unlucky enough ones that has negative mental or personality damage from taking certain drugs.

Social problems are never easy to deal with, especially without the aid of any drugs, but for some people that can be the healthiest way to approach those issues.

Remember it's always easier to blame personality issues on physical things that require little effort from you to be changed, such as drugs, inbalance in the brain, etc. Because it gives you more control than some mystical personality change that only time and a lot of hard effort takes. For example a lot of depression patients are absolutely 100% convinced that their problem is physical chemicals in the brain and can't be changed through hard work, but only through pills and such. Trust me it's much easier to pop a pill every morning than for a shy depressed person to be social in an uncomfortable situation a lot of times, but that may not be the answer.

Personal opinion- if you're so conscious of your current personality issues and problems then you are already half-way to fixing them. It's a sign of a healthy introspective mind to be conscious of those things. But like anything good, if you take it too far it can be bad. What I'm saying is don't worry about those issues so much that they become inflated in your head- which is easy to do. Millions upon millions of people on this planet have those exact same issues you're struggling with right now (probably not all due to drugs).

Be real with yourself, whatever the issue may be, and good luck with those problems. There's never an easy solution. Or there wouldn't be so many issues out there.
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thank you. Im going to just try to work through this without drugs. its my life and mind and i need to learn how to keep it from goin places i dont want it to

ChinaCatSunflower02 · Jan 17, 2010

a simple piece of advice:

what you resist, persists.

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