I have found my own sexuality to be a continuum, It started much the same way. At first just attracted to a man’s cock and wanting a bj from him. Then over time other aspects of being bisexual became desirable and I found them enjoyable also. So is it normal? Based on how many men that I have been with are the same as me and how many more I am exposed to. I think it is.
I think it is quite normal. As men, many of us have been taught directly or subliminally, that it is not normal to be attracted to the same sex - and we are largely in the minority most places we go and with most things we see. When I was a teen, I constantly fought anything relating to the truth of who I was, yet I clearly was more gay than straight. It takes time and unpacking of a whole lot of stuff before some of us come to a place of accepting ourselves as we are...