I think I'm starting to hate men.

right, like 2 semi automatic weapons and a bruised ego from being ridiculed


don't trust those Columbine/Virginia Tech worshipping loners

 

say you hate us all you want but you need our cum

 

Assholes occur in both genders. I hate how sometimes men just don't give a fuck, but I also hate when women give way too much of a fuck and overdramaticize everything (NOT saying you're doing this, by the way). It's just a give and take with us imperfect beings. Besides, in the same way that not all women are drama-queens, not all men are apathetic scum-bags either.

My point is, I just hope the way this man has been treating you doesn't close you off from loving another one in the future, because there are some really wonderful, caring guys out there.

My best wishes of love and healing to you.

 

yay, way to work for the other side

 

Keep up with the times my plebeian friend. Almost any cell can be used to fertalize an egg now, through our magnificent cloning techniques. Soon men will be as much use as a chocolate coffee mug.

 

We can still be useful for killing bugs and doing oil changes.

 

i hate men too

they take away all the pretty ladies...i want them all for myself

 

its cuzz we are assholes. become a dick and you'll score!!!!!

 

Damnit Crumm, you're just adding heat to the fire,,,

 

my bad. Annie, there are good men out there, some arent taken. it sucks the way we have to open oureselves up for the real person to reveal themselves. you cant feel love without risking immeasrable pain. Thats probably why love feels so good, we know how good what we stumbled into is.

 

You pick these men, you're to easy, learn to live with yourself before you seek others.

People are users & you are incapable in knowing this, so you blame a gender for your ignorance.

 

So true "we use each other, because we need each other" but as in any relationship there must one dominant participant and one submissive - the male is not always in the position of dominance


Hotwater

 

you don't know that she is too easy for certain
and although, in many cases, that is why a lot of girls end up with assholes, that may not be the case here
but I do agree that many girls need to learn how to be a little more conservative in order to protect themselves

 

LOL I am far from easy, but I guess that's what people get for assuming things about people they don't know.

In my experience, I can't seem to trust anyone but myself...male or female...but it has been pretty obvious, even in this thread, how immature and insensitive some males can be...

 

We're not insensitive

We Martians don’t think like you Venusians



Hotwater

 

Therein lies the fallacy by which so many relationships fail.

 

yay! I was right

Annie's way too cool to be easy


but as far as that mistrutsting thing
the way I see it, you shouldn't actively trust or mistrust anyoen right away, calm your nerves and go with what you feel
there is no clear way to tell who is trustworthy and saving your trust for a select group only ends up hurting you worse when/if you are wrong

 

no one, of any gender, can honestly count on being able to "be there" for anyone.
the best anyone can commit themselves to is always attempting to.

but no one can count on where their own head space is going to be at any given time or situation either.

i have other reasons to feel less then love for the romantacizing and rewarding of aggressiveness though. and the last time i checked between my legs, i was born of the male persuasion myself.

=^^=
.../\...

 

Of course this thread was born under the guise of resentment and anger. I do know that not all men are terrible...and not all women are terrible. Two of my best friends are male and they have been the most amazing support system anyone could really ask for.

I guess what I really hate is the whole "love" thing...and how love can be so damaging and hurtful...but I also know how beautiful it can be. It's this very strange dynamic that I cannot even begin to control, nor understand.

I don't mean to be hateful or resentful to any sex...hell, I've had more women in my life stab me in the back than men and I didn't name this thread "I think I'm starting to hate women"...we all say and do things that we don't mean sometimes.

So to the men out there who've been supportive, understanding, and loving in this thread and in my life...I'm sorry for saying the things I have said about your gender...I actually really adore you in general.

 

I think you need to relax & pop some Oxycodone