I Think Of Taking It Up The Ass. Am I Gay?

Yes, you are gay!

 

no you are not gay... I have this fantasy as well.. when women have fingered my while giving me head it was amazing

 

No you are not gay but you are bi- curious . Me I’m bisexual and I love having a cock up my ass and it feels so damn awesome specially when he cum’s inside my ass . And I do love having sex with women as well.

 

I don’t think your gay I just think your are interested in something you have never done and you want to experiment, which IMO is normal.

 

Whether you are a very straight heterosexual, BI, or completely gay male... that doesn't change the fact for a lot us our assholes are very arousable. I have been married faithfully for almost 40 years. I had my male to male hookups when I was young before I got married. But I took my marriage vows very serious and have no desire to go out and find a cock to satisfy my anal arousals. My wife knows my past but also knows my faithfulness.

So.... we have toys. Cock rings with an anal plug that vibrates will work that prostate to no end. And on occasion when my meat isn't responding (I am 61 as of this writing) she knows that either that toy or her fingers right up my ass will do the trick. MAn oh man..... I need to go tell my wife it's time to go to bed. ;-)

 

You are not alone as many of us guys on this forum have had the very same thoughts and cravings. Having oral and anal sex with another man in my opinion does not make you "gay". Society has led the majority of society to think this way. I look at it as two people enjoying each other's company and providing each other what a woman is unable to provide which is orally and anally enjoying what a man's cock will provide. It's just sex between two individuals, just because both parties are the same sex does not make the individuals "gay". Being "gay" in my opinion is a lifestyle one chooses to live on a daily basis, to occasionally have sex with someone of the same sex does not qualify as being gay to me.

 

I don't think it makes you gay. You may be but just wanting it in the ass doesn't check all the boxes. I love using my Aneros to stimulate my prostate. It feels good to have something up there filling me up. I don't necesssarily want it to be a real cock but in the right moment, I would try it. Nor do I mind watching two guys doing it. Labels can be problematic.

 

No not if your still interested in women sexually, if so you are still bisexual

 

I agree....
IMO, gay would be wanting ROMANTIC love with a same sex partner. I have romantic love with my wife and absolutely NO DESIRE to have that with a man..... but I also have desires to pleasure and be pleasured by a man, i.e., sexual, physical pleasure.
It would be sexual, physical pleasure in addition to, not in place of, my wife.