I Truly Hate People.

Discussion in 'Random Thoughts' started by Kiprat, Apr 26, 2016.

  1. Moonglow181

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    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7ODcC5z6Ca0


    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7ifdm7Te1fg
     
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  2. hotwater

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    I think it’s a little too early to give up on the human race, as a species were still in our infancy.



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  3. Moonglow181

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    Yeah, as a general topic, I can see the merit of the discussion, but this thread seems to be about some girl and we don't know her side....and who she is she is, is getting thrown under the bus here, if she is not a member of this forum to not even see he is doing it....It is fine to ask for advice about things, but this goes on and on about some girl ...It would be unfair of me to take any sides, as i do not know either of the people involved ....op or her....

    I do give up on some people after awhile.....waste of time sometimes.....Life is too short....move on and along, is my motto.
     
  4. Kiprat

    Kiprat ophidiophobe

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    Well its intended as a general discussion. OK the girl caused the final step in my change of years old perspective, but I'm interested in people's general views not specific suggestions for a solution. Only I can decide that, because how I will frame the pretty long question will decide any answers.

    As for the girl, well she accepted she was wrong, and apologised. No she isn't a member or visitor here, ofcourse.
    But some people I know do know I post here . And TBH I hope they haven't visited in recent times.
    I like the outside world separate from my occasional online tirades. Thanks for your post Moonglow: )
     
  5. abarambling

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    The general idea when it comes to forums like this is when someone post a thread they're posting the thread to either get help or attention. I think because you're not offering details to the situation you need help with people are starting to think you're just seeking attention. Even the original post wasn't about this girl. It took an arm and a leg, as in several posts to get that simple information out of you. Don't get me wrong, I hate when this board wants more details to my threads, and when I don't provide such details they assume. I'm like, "Yo, lay off my dick, nigga". But, I get where their frustrations lie. However, if you honestly are getting help from the indirect posts, then more power to you. Just know I think people are losing interest, and patience. It doesn't help that your original post was so douchey sounding. That's the main reason why I never was really interested in this thread. I kind of wanted it to die from the beginning. Of course, I have to revive it again.
     
  6. Kiprat

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    Look I ended my participation in this thread days ago and thanked everyone for their replies. Others kept it going, so I answered them on stuff.

    I know some people want to know the shitty details. They aren't relevant. I never wanted a solution to a situation I was never going to all explain chapter and verse on. And its not "attention seeking". I call it venting. AND producing a thread that had lots of people talking. And the positive answers gave me some benefit. Some people thought the thread was useful for themselves eg Asha got some benefit from it - I am pleased.

    You can call it "douchey", well it was just what I wanted to say. Like every post here.
    If you don't like the thread now, you don't have to read it or post in it! If 1 or 2 people got bored, well, I'm sorry I'm not a TV show!
    So no, you don't have to "revive" it. Clearly you got out of bed the wrong side today. You don't need to take it out on me! This is quite ugly TBH.

    Thankyou.
     
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  7. Yogamat

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    I think I understand where you're coming from.I went through a similar thing a while ago myself.Although I didnt actually "hate"anyone,I did dislike their behaviour though.Part of being a human though is experiencing emotions,the good,the bad and the ugly! I started distancing myself from people in general,and it worked for a while.Sheer bliss not having to endure people's bullshit,drama's etc.It felt good...for a while.Then I started to feel isolated and pretty lonely! :) The thing is though,you do have control who you mix with right? If I happen to meet a new "friend"I tread carefully.Someone at work recently tried to "be-friend"me.Initially they seemed like a nice person,but after further chats,it became apparent,they were a very negative person,so I chose not to pursue their friendship any further. Its just human nature,some people you click with,some you dont.
    I guess though,its cool to remember that no one is perfect (me included).If hating people makes you happy,then so be it.If however,after a while you start to feel lonely and isolated (as I did)then you have to accept that,sometimes its better to have people in your life,and take the rough with the smooth.
     
  8. abarambling

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    I'm just expressing my opinion, like you expressed yours. Nothing more or less.
     
  9. scratcho

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    Even a well honed bullshit detector can fail us from time to time. Sharpen it up and keep on truckin.'
     
  10. Vanilla Gorilla

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    Oi, you are one of those guys, just as long as you are right, that's more important than anything else
     
  11. Moonglow181

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    I think it takes two to make something work or not work....and if something does not work, for whatever reason....both should look at themselves. I am not into any blame games, either.....and sometimes, things just don't work out.....and maybe there is someone better suited for you out there one day.
     
  12. themnax

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    that depends on what you want to talk about working. personally i find a whole lot of things a whole lot more interesting then personal relationships. like machines and nature and houses and the universe or at least this one, and how everything that isn't about the human ego actually works. and some of them take more then one person to make, but most of them don't take anyone to keep them working, at least for a good long while, and that's what i love about them. and how some of them, didn't even have anything to do with anything human, or even physically alive.

    i'm not saying that to criticize you, or any one person, but this nonsense idea that everything has to be about ourselves as a species or even anything to do with anything any of us think we know about it.

    this idea that people have, that the universe somehow has to be about the human species, is the very thing i find most repulsive about the human species. its just ego lying to itself.

    (that's also the thing i find boring about television and frequently about this forum)
     
  13. themnax

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    this is an aquired taste. i've honestly tried time and time again to aquire it. but i'm sorry, i really just can't.

    i love affection, and i want people to be able to be happy, but beyond that, just no.
    their blind stupidity in hurting each other, and denying how they screw up what they have to experience themselves by doing so,
    there are just better things to enjoy, even in complete poverty, then to waste what life we have, beating my head anyway, against all that.
     
  14. Moonglow181

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    A working relationship is a symbiotic relationship.....it is care and trust and consideration, love and kindness and respect and thoughfulness....and i am talking about all working relationships including friendships ...it is many things.....It is understanding and communication.....and really finding out where someone else is at....and being helpful when they are down.....and trusting them enoughto let them know why you are down...It is all kinds of things.....It is give and take.....

    i certainly don't think that the universe revolves around me or any humans....i am always thinking of others...or other species......I, too, like machines.....they do so much for us and ask for nothing in return...however, even they can break down and not work anymore.....
     
  15. themnax

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    all of this is certainly true. i just think humanity's obsession with itself is far from healthy.
     
  16. Meliai

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    You're different from most people though.

    I dont mean that as a bad thing.

    I am an introvert and i need time alone with my hobbies but not to the extent you do. I still crave human interaction and feel a little crazy without it after an extended period of time. Whereas you can take or leave people, most people have to put up with the bullshit humanity has to offer in order to get to the best parts of humanity.
     
  17. themnax

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    i actually consider being different from most people a GOOD thing.

    not that it makes me better then what anyone else could be and many are. i know better then that.
    but anyone who thinks it isn't a good thing, it seems to me, just isn't really thinking.

    i honestly don't understand why more people aren't more like me. i've just learned not to expect them to be.

    i really don't believe people were born to be so dependent on being so much like each other.
    that or i'm not quite human, which if so, i'm fine with that too.

    if it is something programed into the human genome, my spirit must be from another world.
    this would seem to be supported by the dreams i had before i was born,
    and the kind of world they mostly continue to take place in now.

    actually i know of quite a lot of people to varying degrees sharing a similar perspective and outlook, or seeming and claiming to at any rate.

    it hasn't made me entirely dysfunctional, but it does make some things inconvenient or challenging.
    though i don't see how they are or would be any less so for others.

    i do see so many things in our world as messed up by the unwillingness or inability of so many people to look
    beyond the box of human society.

    to accept a universe that is no more hostile then it is coddling.
    that is instead so much more wonderfully gratifying in its diversity.
     
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