I want a boyfriend

im with you, fuck buddies are the best

 

i want a boyfriend, but i dont. get it? i dont either.

 

I don't think I want a boyfriend. Though frankly I'll consider all offers...

 

Most of men are horrible, let not there cute eyes and soft deceiful tounges delude you away from their goal. Most of them treat women badly, and after a couple of weeks when you have been "consumed" they move away to another victim, all of men except a few are like this.

I've never had a girlfriend and am not planning on ever getting one, what is the point with this foolishness? Why be with someone for the fun of it, knowing that we may split up and then feelings of remorse covering me(not that I know how that feels but I can imagine).

I may sound as your grandmother here but: try to stay chaste, stay clean and stay sober ^^

 

Be careful when choosing a boyfriend. If you are really looking for a relationship then don't jump into anything. If your just looking for a good time then, well...find some free love!!!

 

Free love or meaningless spoiling of time?

 

why is it meaningless? your having pleasure. why should the pleasure of interaction be so much mroe meaningful than the pleasure of sex?

personalyl, i dont want a relationship. i used to heaps. now all i want is sex and friends. friends are awesome, there is not much bligation. relationships? fuck that, most girls are such bithces when it comes to relationships.

when i find someone and get to know them aqnd decide i want to spend my days with them, then ill consider forming a stable 'relationship'. until then, i would like sex and friends thank you. that way you can have great meaingful relatioships with people, but not be obliged to any particular person, and also be free to spend time with whoever you want.

obviosuly there are some obligations to friends. but theyre casual and comfortable

 

oh and i dont believe you can ever find the person you really love just by meeting someone at a bar and going out. the chance that person is really the one you want is very low. because i think a lot of people forget that if you spend time with someone in a relationship, you start to like them more and be comfortable with them. there is love that comes from true desire and there is love that is conditioned into you.
differnet people are different in this respect too, but i find that i can never want to really go out with someone at all until ive got to know them a bit first.

 

chicks dig me, but i am hard to get.

 

Irrelevant detail. You most surely didn't have a try out when your mother conceived you(intervieweing different moms to see which one would fit you ^^)but you loved her anyway(I guess...). Im among the last to teach about relationships and love but I found it difficult to imagine suching so futile and utterly disgusting as having sex like animals to be something one would call pleasure, thats just sad in my opinion.