Have to agree, when I am in a relationship and it's right (not every little thing but I feel attractive to him) my fantasies are not really fantasies anymore but are thoughts that might come up, you can't totally avoid a thought. The older guy thing has left me years ago. When I saw the end of a relationship for some reason it wasn't older men I looked for. Almost always they were only about three years older the me. But ya it was a fantasy in and around my twenties, don't even know why but I think seeing a great looking older gent now and then might have been why, some men age quite nicely. BF now is three years older and my hubby who passed on was three years older, the cards just keep being played that way I guess so as long as it's attraction it's a good thing. I will say this. I have had a few 30ish older gents attracted to me, I could have been their daughter, for some reason that wasn't for me at those times, in a relationship and one older guy was my friend's dad,,, weird,,,,
If a guy in his 20s who has a sexual life wants to have sex with me, fine. I see him as someone's experimenting, enjoying his sexual life to the full and just wants an extra experience. If he's a virgin, I'll wonder if he's just too desperate, can't get a person his own age for a fuck and that's why he's settling for a fuck with an older woman. If the virgin guy can manage not to sound like a desperate case, it may even work. If he's good looking, has some nice muscles, good skin (post pimple-face stage) and a worthwhile penis, he can just approach me and be direct.
I too think older women are super sexy! I have often have day dreams about older women. Being my age (17) I'm fairly certain my lack of any experience would make the experience for the older woman less enjoyable. Mature women are sexy because they know more about everything! A sexy mind has no age.
Interesting. Where I live, people usually dont tend to have sex without marriage. I guess it's bad to live in a muslim country. If a girl has sex without marriage, she's seen as a slut, which she doesn't like to. Good girls dont have sex here where I live. Not without marriage. We have a diffirent culture than yours. You dont have sex when you date a girl here. How does this sound to you? I just wondered.
More mature women are just so sexy. Since I was around 25 I've always been happier and more sexually satisfied with older women. They just seem to know exactly what they want, exactly what you want and, more importantly, exactly what to do about it! I've learned more than a thing or two from older women especially when it comes to eating pussy in a way that's enjoyable for both parties.