you know, i've been adopted twice and i have some troubles with my family sometimes, and with disagreements here and there. collectively, i enjoy my family and my adoptive parents, although im often attacked for being different. i have learned to let it roll off my shoulder, because most of this is just foolish shit. i've chilled out a bit and learned if you wait it out, theyll wait for you to give them feedback. its like my parents want me to argue its the fool who doesnt get angry it is the wise who choose not to be i dont think being adopted is much different, i've been in both worlds however, it all depends on the parents
what you say, I went trough same things when i was a kid. One day when i was at college I realized that It was pointless to take sides on my parents marriage. I had to step aside, into my own side, and let them solve or drawn with their problems like a couple of adults they are. And the amazing thing is they are still together, dont know if they worked out their issues, but its so good, to know its non of my business, that I must work out my own problems. its a relief.