I would put this in the men's forum but I'm getting shunned lol

Discussion in 'Random Thoughts' started by Bellfire01, Jun 13, 2006.

  1. bird_migration

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    You agree because society dictates you to agree with that?
     
  2. Bellfire01

    Bellfire01 I'll say anything

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    Because, sex in the right hand can be beautiful, meaniful unforgetable. Sex in the wrong hands however; can be wasteful ugly, meeningless. I'm not say that you should want to kill another person over sex but at least care enough to be hurt when they are giving it to someone else or it's just like children playing with matches instead of grown ups making a fire.
     
  3. questing400

    questing400 Senior Member

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    Something tells me Bird was being facetious
     
  4. Raving Sultan

    Raving Sultan Banned

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    Nymphomania is a disease - I am the cure!
     
  5. bird_migration

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    It is your way of thinking that makes you get hurt. This goes not only for sex though.
     
  6. hippychickmommy

    hippychickmommy Sugar and Spice

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    No, I agree because it's simply how I feel. I've never been sexually intimate with anyone but my husband, and I have no regrets whatsoever about that. :)

    It doesn't matter what society thinks. It matters what you feel in your heart,and not all arrangements are a perfect fit for everybody. We're all unique, and hey, it's what makes life interesting.
     
  7. dhs

    dhs Senior Member

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    100%

    When I'm in love with someone I have zero desire to have sex with anyone else. When single, I have on a few occasions had casual sex, but I really didn't enjoy it. That's just me though. I don't expect others to be the same way. People are different
     
  8. Raving Sultan

    Raving Sultan Banned

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    I have a hard on right now!
     
  9. hippychickmommy

    hippychickmommy Sugar and Spice

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    Well go take care of it then! :p
     
  10. bird_migration

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    Fair enough.
    Sex is heavily overrated though according to my opinion. Or underrated, depends on how you look at it.
     
  11. Bellfire01

    Bellfire01 I'll say anything

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    When you find the person you love then it hurts inside to see anything happen that takes them from you. The fact that people can trivialze making love and call it just simple sex means they haven't had that experience of a lifetime. That specail closeness which seperates the love in your heart from things familiar. When you first loved a parent. Then you first loved a sibling. Then you first loved a friend. When you first love the person you're with and then you first find real love. That person will do things that get to you like no one else can and you won't want anyone or anything to come between the two of you.
     
  12. dhs

    dhs Senior Member

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    I'm sure some people remain commited to one partner because that is what society suggests through glorifying marriage etc. It's not a societal thing for everyone though - some people are wired to be monogamous others are not
     
  13. Raving Sultan

    Raving Sultan Banned

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    This thread reeks of estrogen
     
  14. hippychickmommy

    hippychickmommy Sugar and Spice

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    But I thought you loved estrogen?
     
  15. Raving Sultan

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    I like the way it makes my fingers smell
     
  16. Bellfire01

    Bellfire01 I'll say anything

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    Naw, you are just afraid to need. I'm like that. Who likes rejection? I just know that people fall in love and it's not two bodies clunking together it's actually a uniting of souls. It's something that people search there entire lives hoping to find but when you don't care about people then it's not as valuable and harder to understand.
     
  17. hippychickmommy

    hippychickmommy Sugar and Spice

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    Well I guess that's a good thing!
     
  18. ihmurria

    ihmurria fini

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    makes sense
    I mean, after a night with you, what sane woman would ever want sex again?
    could scar them for life


    ;)
     
  19. Raving Sultan

    Raving Sultan Banned

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    Thats why i like the ones who are crazy in the sack [​IMG]
     
  20. bird_migration

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    Now with this post you really win a place in my heart. Kudos!
     
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