^^Reefer- "Was Atman then not within him? Was not then the source within his own heart? One must find the source within one's own Self, one must possess it. Everything else was seeking - a detour, error"
Happiness is subjective. Everyone has their own preferences. Mine are acceptance, appreciation and affection from another. I can be happy by myself but i can be happier sharing my life and self with another. Only I know what makes me most happy, no one else. Only i can make myself happier, only ourselves can make the choices, no one can make them for you. Happiness is the only thing desirable in itself. I got her number, things are looking up. For now at least. Keep on tokin =]