If someone cares more

'fix' herself? what exactly does she have in mind? plastic surgery? cause if it's plastic surgery then she was fucked up from the get go and you should get as far away from her as possible.

it's natural to concern oneself with how one looks. and little things like lavishing extra cash on designer clothes, doing exercises for weight loss, dying one's hair, wearing jewelry, getting a tattoo, etc, those are little things that you can let slide. if it's something beyond that, i'd recommend finding someone with a little more healthy attitude about themselves. because if they don't have it they aren't ever gonna be happy. they want to change who they are, but they fail to understand that even plastic surgeries can't work miracles like that.