If the sex is good...

Well, she ain't ugly. In fact, she's quite a hottie. I just don't want to give any of my real self to another girl for a while. She's a lot younger than I am, and while age is just a number, it does affect certain things like outlook on life, life-experience, musical taste(sorry but I really don't dig Kanye), and numerous other things. She's not really my type(if I have one). But she is attracted to me and I find her extremely horny. We seem to enjoy each others company very much(at least sexually) and she does make me laugh regularly.

All in all, she's a pretty good chick but I'm not looking for anything more than a regular fuck at the moment. Sorry for being so blunt.

 

No offense, but you don't spend 60 hours in bed for a weekend with someone that you just want to fuck.

You are leading this woman on.

 

It's probably good to let her know how you feel sooner rather then later.

Personally though, if the sex is there, then a lot of components of attraction are there. I don't really know how long I'd stick with it if I weren't into her.

 

I don't know how in the hell I am leading her on if I told her that I don't want a girlfriend but that I do enjoy seeing her. It's true, I do.

 

Oh sorry. I didn't read the whole thread. I'm sorta ADD.

If you let you made what you want clear, then your golden. Have fun Red!

 

that's alright man. It's just that although I should be golden because of my honesty, I don't feel very golden. I do feel like I am leading her on somehow, and I'm pretty sure it will all end in tears.

 

Hmm. Sleep on it for a week, then let her know that you feel the same way again.

All you can do is give her realistic expectations. If you let her know again, you'll be doing the right thing. Try not to break hearts Red.

 

anytime ppl have sexual relationships, the majority of the situations ALWAYS end up in one of the persons involved wanting MORE.. if shes already mentioned about being your girlfriend, then shes going to try a little to get you to convert, and if you dont, then shes going to end it.

 

I'll probably mull it over during the week as we won't see each other again until Saturday. 80kms difference between workplaces. But I have just thought of a good reason to say goodbye...




She's American.

 

yeah, us americans really suck, we dont want to just have a fuckbuddy, but want a loving relationship.. DAMN US!!!! Im gonna go out right now and see how many STDs I can get in one night!!! hell yeah!

 

You be careful now GhostLyric, we don't want you bringing any really nasty surprises home for our buddy, Cogliostro.

 

lol. i was kidding! im very loyal and dedicated to my wonderful husband.

 

......and the sex is GREAT

 

Great sex is hard to come by though. That's why I'm in two minds over whether to push girl on her merry way.

 

how can the sex be good if i'm turned off by their romantacizing of aggressiveness, fanatical conventionality, or economic prejudice?

oh sure, once upon a time i was young and horney enough that i didn't think that would matter as much as it does. but we don't stay that way forever. and seeing the conditions those things have created, kind of almost puts me off sex entirely.

or even wanting a hell of a lot to do with human society platonicly for that matter.

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I personally really just am not turned on if im not in love with someone. I wont sleep with people i dont love, not because of morals or because im a prude, just because i have no desire to. Its the way im wired up i guess. The loves what starts it for me, what makes me want to do it, then after that i can be pretty damn horny and up for good fun

I understand some people work differently though, but sorry no advice! Hope all works out for you

 

If only the sex is good, why wouldn't I just use them as a fuck buddy?

 

I will ignore none... I don't care how fantastic of a lay someone is, it is not worth it..

 

Personally I would cut it off.. I just got out of a situation like that... I wanted to be with him but he kept lingering me and I knew better but hey the sex was good.. and he was like ohh Im still not over Misty but I want things to work between us..... and they were working and I was falling but I was just a good fuck for him and now Im preggers and he's left me for some bimbo he instantly fell in love with after three days and there was a "slight-age gap" between us too...... it sounds like a recipe for heart ache.. and if you have any kind of a concious you'll find another play toy

 

Great sex is hard to come by???

....really???

*scratches head*