If You Are A Confident Man, Why Are You So?

Look everyone is different....some people are conceited..in both sexes...some are not.....
some people think only about sex in both sexes...others do not....to make generalizations about anything is a very narrow minded mind set.....and limits you.....your thinking does that....as you already have preconceived notions about everything.

 

If I talk to anyone new with any preconceived notions about them, they will pick up on that......and there will already be cracks in the foundation of learning about each person as a new experience.........blank canvass....to see what goes there so to speak.....risky, yes.....I always think everyone is innocent and give them everthing right off the bat...i think I am too much that way....Should be more discerning at first. would save me much hurt and disappointment.

 

I agree with rollingstoned. When you are happy with yourself (without deluding yourself) you will feel confident.

This attitude is not gender restricted.

 

I was going to give an opinion but.......I'm too worried about what other people might think.

Seriously though, if you feel happy with yourself, as others have said, that's the key thing.

 

Because I'm a Jedi.

 

Another thing is to know your own limitations. That way, you can avoid becoming overconfident or arrogant.

 

But my point is that men chase women. For that reason women feel valuable. As a man, I am so hungry to talk to a girl but girls are not this way. They are so full with it. They are bored of men trying to meet them. Being a woman is not same as being a man. Do you see my point?

 

But my point is that men chase women. For that reason women feel valuable. As a man, I am so hungry to talk to a girl but girls are not this way. They are so full with it. They are bored of men trying to talk to them. Being a woman is not same as being a man. Do you see my point?

 

But my point is that men chase women. For that reason women feel valuable. As a man, I am so hungry to talk to a girl but girls are not this way. They are so full with it. They are bored of men trying to talk to them. Being a woman is not same as being a man. Do you see my point?

 

I feel your resentment towards females......with your stereotyping them.....
people either click together or they don't.....
in the animal kingdom...the males go after the females.....
in the human kingdom, it is both these days....
it never worked out if i chased the male.....I prefer it the other way...but that does not make me feel more valuable.

 

Since you are a woman. Men try to meet you, you are so full with it but if you are a man, when you try to talk to girls, they will make a sour face to you. Who is hungry to talk to opposite gender is male gender and who is full with it is female gender.

 

then there is the old saying...a man chases the female until she catches him............

so true...i see it when it happens, too....

 

i am not full with anything....nada.

 

not this again !!

 

More generalizations. Have you considered that maybe the problem is you? I mean....not all women are the same but they all seem to give you the same reaction? I don't know anything about you but your experience is definitely not the same for all guys. I have no problem talking to women and never get that reaction from them. Many of them will flirt with me and I wouldn't have a problem getting laid if I were a single guy.....but I clearly don't have the same mentality as you do. Feel free to disagree but results speak for themselves.

 

Well, if you are the kind of guy who is good at getting girls, sure you wouldn't have a problem talking to girls but getting laid would be so difficult for you in Turkey because Turkey is a muslim country. I disagree about you getting laid.

 

It doesn't matter what country you're in. If you don't have the right mentality....you're going to turn off women. For starters....I've noticed that you have consistently referred to yourself and other males as "men" while you have continually referred to females as "girls". Could be a coincidence or it could be that you just view them as beneath you in some way (whether you realize it or not). If women are picking up that vibe from you and you look at them as something you want to "get"....especially in a conservative environment....I'd say that's part of your problem. You're giving off the creeper vibe. I'd reevaluate your approach...starting there.

I'm not interested in "girls". I'm interested in women. And I'm not interested in being good at "getting them". I'm interested in conducting myself as someone they want to "get". Someone they want to be around and be comfortable with and be themselves without thinking every move they make is being evaluated as some part of a game of Cat And Mouse. And when I was single....there was no promise that I would even have sex with them....which sometimes makes you even more attractive to them. Many of them weren't really my type and I didn't have sex with them even though it was more than obvious that they wanted to.

You can make that happen but not with your mentality right now. And yes....I think I could still get laid in Turkey.

 

I feel confidence in a lot of people is just a play on the real thing.
In my opinion, you need to know who you are first before anything else.
Once you know who you are, what you want etc, then I feel confidence comes very easily

 

I still disagree about getting laid. Having Sex is not a normal thing in a muslim country.